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I didn't read any of the other posts, but yes, the short answer to your question is you are a prude. Probably more so than just the average prude. Anything in life is what you make it. If my wife purchased a massage for me, I would keep my mouth shut and enjoy it. I don't think I would worry about 'icky' oil, or anything else. Massage is not a sexual thing, it is a way to relax the muscles in your body, not only your back, but others as well, and experience a calmness unlike others you may experience. Do you feel the same way when you go to a doctor? How about a chiropractor? Do you thing some young person is putting their hands on your body because they enjoy it? They are putting their hands on your body because that is how they make a living. I suspect they would just as soon not have customers like you.
My Wife tells me that she has booked me in for a massage.
Apparently, one of her friends does massage (just an acquaintance actually), and with me having a bad back, she thought of me. Well, I’m not into getting covered in icky oil, and am not really comfortable with the concept of letting her get her hands all over me. (If I had been single, then maybe).
I think I’ve got out of it by asking, “Does she do extras, and how much does she charge?” You never know, that could be how it is!
Having a young, skinny woman, or man, (if that be the case), clambering all over you, has got to be sexual thing, hasn’t it?
Maybe I'm just a prude!
I recently went with my wife for a massage at our local massage/health spa.
The young lady that massged me was lovely.
The massage nearly killed me........lol
It was a whole body massage and at no time was the masseur was professional at all times.......... it was great but had to drink a few bottles of water afterwards as it really detoxes and dehydrates you.
Massage does not mean sex..... real massages mean massage.
I only go to female doctors when available, male doctors are perverts. Sorry lol.
Both men and women are massage therapists.
I prefer Thai from women.
At the end, I usually show them a move or two that they can incorporate into their routine.
Both men and women are massage therapists.
I prefer Thai from women.
At the end, I usually show them a move or two that they can incorporate into their routine.
yes i know both men and women are massage therapists. i only been to a woman for massages, as I do not like strange men touching me. one time I did go there and they had a man but I refused and asked for a lady and it wasn't a problem. If you know some moves to show them, I guess they do not mind, I don't know how to tell them any massage maneuvers myself.
Both men and women are massage therapists.
I prefer Thai from women.
At the end, I usually show them a move or two that they can incorporate into their routine.
I prefer women's thai's myself, unless of course they appear more like two five gallon pails of cottage cheese, which I'm sure is just as unappealing in men.
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