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She has stated over and over again that they are just friends. But I think you are right she isn't over him.
Well, ever heard the term friends with benefits? They could very well be friends (meaning she isnt completely lying) but from time to time...exchange pleasantries...my suggestion is to back off. One way or the other, you'll find out if she wants to be with you...exclusively.
I agree there are red flags with two exes hanging around and you should tread cautiously. However, you talked to her on Saturday. Sunday she had skiing plans all day and today was the beginning of a business trip. I think you may be over-reacting to not hearing from her. Not everyone texts and calls all of the time, especially if they are old enough to have grown kids. Just make sure you don't keep texting her as you have texted several times and called. If she is just busy you should hear from her soon, otherwise she has moved on.
She is going skiing next weekend. She is in on a trip all week and the ex is flying her kids and his daughter out there to ski. Her EX husband hates the idea. Her GF's think she is crazy and that her exboyfriend has another agenda.
Best for me to just cool it. and let her come to me.
The last time I heard from her was Saturday and was a simple yes. It has gone south for some reason and I wish I new why.
Don't dwell on the why just be grateful she is gone and run away as fast as you can. Sounds like she has major issues.
Good Luck.
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