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Old 01-31-2012, 02:53 PM
 
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The guy I'm seeing recently told me that he's going to be transferring to another school in another state for the semester for a few classes, but that he will be back on weekends. He has some family there(his sister w/ health problems as well I learned is in this state). He will be leaving for there next month and there until at least May, but he did say he might stay there after that for another family event in June. I guess his mom is getting re married. Right now he's living w/ his aunt&uncle.

Anyway, we have both been talking a lot about sex and taking it to the next level. Yet he knew he was going to be away a lot and come back on the weekends. So should I put out now and take the risk that that's all he wanted and he got it or should I hold out and wait for when he comes back?
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Old 01-31-2012, 02:55 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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If you have to ask, hang onto it until you're sure. When you're sure, you don't ask strangers--not about something this important anyway.
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Old 01-31-2012, 02:57 PM
 
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The guy I'm seeing recently told me that he's going to be transferring to another school in another state for the semester for a few classes, but that he will be back on weekends. He has some family there(his sister w/ health problems as well I learned is in this state). He will be leaving for there next month and there until at least May, but he did say he might stay there after that for another family event in June. I guess his mom is getting re married. Right now he's living w/ his aunt&uncle.

Anyway, we have both been talking a lot about sex and taking it to the next level. Yet he knew he was going to be away a lot and come back on the weekends. So should I put out now and take the risk that that's all he wanted and he got it or should I hold out and wait for when he comes back?
Good grief

PLEASE be smarter than this.
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Old 01-31-2012, 02:58 PM
 
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LOL why not just see what happens, why have to have a huge discussion about it? u make the decision
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Old 01-31-2012, 02:59 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I didn't read it. I just saw the word "put out"! If you look at it as "putting out," just don't bother...
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Old 01-31-2012, 03:00 PM
 
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Wow, sex advice from strangers. If you are not mature enough to make this decision on your own I have a feeling you are not mature enough to have sex.
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Old 01-31-2012, 03:03 PM
 
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I don't know if you've posted before but it seems like I've heard this story before.

Anyways, my intuition says he's not ever moving back to where you are for good or at least not for a looong while. If it's going to make you feel used then don't have sex with him.
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Old 01-31-2012, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Kingman AZ
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Be sure to use Birth Control......ONE aspirin.....held FIRMLY between your knees.
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Old 01-31-2012, 03:04 PM
 
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My question is do you think he is just looking to get laid and nothing else?
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Old 01-31-2012, 03:04 PM
 
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I love that expression: "Put out." It brings dirty back to sex. Reminds me of back seat sex, skipping school sex, church festival sex.

Hot.

But, for your situation, it will just make the whole thing more difficult.
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