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The guy I'm seeing recently told me that he's going to be transferring to another school in another state for the semester for a few classes, but that he will be back on weekends. He has some family there(his sister w/ health problems as well I learned is in this state). He will be leaving for there next month and there until at least May, but he did say he might stay there after that for another family event in June. I guess his mom is getting re married. Right now he's living w/ his aunt&uncle.
Anyway, we have both been talking a lot about sex and taking it to the next level. Yet he knew he was going to be away a lot and come back on the weekends. So should I put out now and take the risk that that's all he wanted and he got it or should I hold out and wait for when he comes back?
The guy I'm seeing recently told me that he's going to be transferring to another school in another state for the semester for a few classes, but that he will be back on weekends. He has some family there(his sister w/ health problems as well I learned is in this state). He will be leaving for there next month and there until at least May, but he did say he might stay there after that for another family event in June. I guess his mom is getting re married. Right now he's living w/ his aunt&uncle.
Anyway, we have both been talking a lot about sex and taking it to the next level. Yet he knew he was going to be away a lot and come back on the weekends. So should I put out now and take the risk that that's all he wanted and he got it or should I hold out and wait for when he comes back?
I don't know if you've posted before but it seems like I've heard this story before.
Anyways, my intuition says he's not ever moving back to where you are for good or at least not for a looong while. If it's going to make you feel used then don't have sex with him.
I love that expression: "Put out." It brings dirty back to sex. Reminds me of back seat sex, skipping school sex, church festival sex.
Hot.
But, for your situation, it will just make the whole thing more difficult.
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