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Old 02-02-2012, 04:09 PM
 
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At the same time?

Cause that'd still be a comment on wang size.
No, not at the same time. That stuff doesn't even come into my head......

I've been thinking about that imagery, and the wang size thing still doesn't make sense.

Y'all don't have to explain further, though.
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Old 02-02-2012, 04:10 PM
 
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You're still implying that males can't be pincushions~
Not straight ones, anyway. Gays, I guess they can.
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Old 02-02-2012, 04:11 PM
 
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I have absolutely no problem with your not being on board with it. You do what you want to do.

It is the insistence that yours is the "universal" way to look at marriage that I think wildly incorrect. There are people, myself and my husband included, who are happy, mentally and physically healthy, raising terrific kids, who don't look at it that way. How is this bad?
All I am saying is that there are more, many more, in this world who think my way than think your way. Is it good or bad? Not up to me.
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Old 02-02-2012, 04:15 PM
 
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How truly intimate could a person possibly be with someone they know gets boned by someone else when they're not doing it?

"U coming over here tonight?"
"-No I'm gonna be screwing johns brains out"
"oh...okay, I'll go and by that girl on the boulevard then, see you tomorrow"
"-No I'll be doing your brother then, sorry he's just a bit bigger than you, oh and tuesday I'll pay the dentist with myself, he's kinda cute so I'll make a full night out of him"

Sounds a good foundation to build trust doesn't it?
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Old 02-02-2012, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach
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How truly intimate could a person possibly be with someone they know gets boned by someone else when they're not doing it?
Very, actually. I'm more intimate wiht my wife than I am with anyone else.

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"U coming over here tonight?"
"-No I'm gonna be screwing johns brains out"
"oh...okay, I'll go and by that girl on the boulevard then, see you tomorrow"
"-No I'll be doing your brother then, sorry he's just a bit bigger than you, oh and tuesday I'll pay the dentist with myself, he's kinda cute so I'll make a full night out of him"

Sounds a good foundation to build trust doesn't it?

Yes.

Because what you see there is something that many couples lack:

Communication.
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Old 02-02-2012, 04:21 PM
 
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What's the point of having a wife then?
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Old 02-02-2012, 04:26 PM
 
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How truly intimate could a person possibly be with someone they know gets boned by someone else when they're not doing it?
It's like being a Harley person. If you have to ask, you'll never get it.

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"U coming over here tonight?"
"-No I'm gonna be screwing johns brains out"
"oh...okay, I'll go and by that girl on the boulevard then, see you tomorrow"
"-No I'll be doing your brother then, sorry he's just a bit bigger than you, oh and tuesday I'll pay the dentist with myself, he's kinda cute so I'll make a full night out of him"
That's not how it works.

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Sounds a good foundation to build trust doesn't it?
Not your version, but the reality is that it does. Earlier in this thread there were people commenting that they would literally divorce if their spouse so much as brought up the idea. There is nothing I can't tell my wife, so I need not censor myself around her. I trust her absolutely in every manner. This despite the fact that I've seen her get plowed six ways to Sunday by dozens, perhaps hundreds of other men and women.

There's no petty little jealousies, nobody feels the need to snoop through email, or erase browser histories, or get mad when one of us is admiring an attractive person that isn't us. Hell, she points hotties out to me lol.
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Old 02-02-2012, 04:27 PM
 
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What's the point of having a wife then?
You got married just to have sex?
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Old 02-02-2012, 04:31 PM
 
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What's the point of having a wife then?
Because she's the woman I love with all my heart and want to spend the rest of my life with?
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Old 02-02-2012, 04:51 PM
 
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Because she's the woman I love with all my heart and want to spend the rest of my life with?
But you're willing to let other men be with her sexually.
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