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Old 02-04-2012, 07:01 PM
 
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i am just curious how you would react if you knew your girlfriend had a 3some with one of her favorite friends and her husband in the past and you had to meet them?
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Old 02-04-2012, 07:16 PM
 
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i am just curious how you would react if you knew your girlfriend had a 3some with one of her favorite friends and her husband in the past and you had to meet them?
Well that would be an awkward moment in my life for me.
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Old 02-04-2012, 07:18 PM
 
Location: TX
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Personally, I don't believe in keeping in touch with anyone I've had sexual relations with when I'm in a new relationship, and I always let the women I dated know this right off the bat. So naturally, I would NOT want to meet someone who had been with my girlfriend that way and I wouldn't be comfortable with her having much of a friendship with them either.
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Old 02-04-2012, 07:31 PM
 
Location: Pawnee Nation
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bring condoms in case they want to do a foursome..........
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Old 02-04-2012, 07:35 PM
 
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bring condoms in case they want to do a foursome..........
lol
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Old 02-04-2012, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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It wouldn't be a problem. I may have had some similar adventures, anyway.
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Old 02-04-2012, 08:02 PM
 
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I wouldn't want to.

I'd be very uncomfortable and I would hate for the guy of the other couple to want to "party" with me in the future.

As a matter of fact, I wouldn't even want to know about the situation and prefer they keep that to themselves.

I'm not down with the swinging "lifestyle".
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Old 02-04-2012, 08:04 PM
 
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Okay gotta give props on the bring condoms lol that is hilarious because I'm a usually don't give a **** person but just kinda bugged me. But I felt like I should of gone with the I really don't give a **** perspective for real bc if she wanted to bring another girl in I would be down. Oh why I'm on here how do u find your post quicker. I'm new on here so is there a way so when I log in I can just find it directly
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Old 02-04-2012, 08:30 PM
 
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Naw I didn't ask man I just had a moment of realization last night and I know her real number but I won't ever prolly giver her my number only because it dominates hers by 22 I just didn't know what to think about the situation earlier. I don't care she did but I wasn't sure on the reaction I should have had the only reason she told me was that I figured it out unintentionally so it's no biggie
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Old 02-04-2012, 09:17 PM
 
Location: TX
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I wouldn't want to.

I'd be very uncomfortable and I would hate for the guy of the other couple to want to "party" with me in the future.

As a matter of fact, I wouldn't even want to know about the situation and prefer they keep that to themselves.

I'm not down with the swinging "lifestyle".
Agreed. And I suppose simply not knowing about their sexual misadventures is one way of handling it. But I'd still rather my girlfriend cut ties with those people, or at least be nothing more than acquaintances.

My girlfriend sees it the same way. And it isn't about insecurity (as I can already see people claiming). I'm still friends with one of my ex-girlfriends from high school as a matter of fact. But we never crossed that line. I think that while sex may not "bind you for life", it can change the potential for a platonic friendship. I tried being friends with my ex-wife, and it just felt weird.
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