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Originally Posted by SummerFall
Please put "for SOME women" as you do not know me. I have tried the online dating thing, and actually DID meet someone who I ended up dating for a while...just not enough of spark there for me. But a good guy.
I will probably try it again. I wont do it because I need 'validation' on any darn thing. Sheesh i just want to explore other ways of meeting people; that's it. Period. I dont want to have an 'online' relationship. i just want to use it because it may enable me to meet more like minded people more quickly than I would any other way.
I would just use the internet as an introduction, and then meet in person. I thought that was a given. Didnt know we needed a study to confirm that.
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Pretty sure I repped (rep'd ?) this post, because it succinctly states my reaction as well.
I bolded/bold-faced couple lines that most hit the nail on the head.
I cannot recall if it was in this thread, forum, or elsewhere-but I recently saw a sentence someone posted that said, (paraphrasing):
"everyone is a stranger until you meet them".
Whether one has made online contact
before meeting someone offline or not, they're still unknown. How is online contact, in advance, inherently
more dangerous than meeting someone
solely via offline (chance/random/"right place at right time") opportunity ?
Anybody could be anybody, both
on or off line.
Edit: Found the thread in which I did rep this member's comment (whom I quoted in the above box). The other (very similar, hence my confusion) thread was:
"I dont understand how women could use online dating..."
which also likely contained the line from another poster about how we're all strangers, before meeting in person (but the thread's a dozen pages long by now, so I can't find where the exact quote was & who said it. Just trying to give credit where it's due.