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Conclusion the same, hes a narcissist. He loves himself and wants you to feel the same. You know, becoz hes all that and a bag a chips. He wants you to ask him for an exclusive relationship.
Sounds like he was testing you - I wouldn't be surprised if he made the whole thing up just to see how you'd react. If he was expecting you to get jealous, why would he so willingly tell you about it unless it was a test? Either he just likes to mess with women's feelings or he wanted things to make things exclusive with you and this was his way of finding out if you felt the same way. Not the kind of game playing you want to be involved with anyway, good riddance.
It probably didn't happen thinking about it now unless the dude's a player and he can get anyone he wants {OP could answer that not us}. So it's like I said, the dude got attached and he wanted to find out if you felt the same way. Clearly you don't so now he's probably pissed as a result.
Same rules apply when dating a co-worker or messing around with a co-worker. Slept with one almost a month ago and she's getting attached. She has a boyfriend too.
I think that unless you want more problems than you can handle, you ought to let him go. He's talking out of both sides of his neck. You don't need that.
I am confused... I 've met this guy about a month ago, we have being hanging out, we have great chemistry and get alone well.
Last weekend he went on a trip for work, and got back last night, after we had some fun he tells me he met someone on this trip and slept with her.
I was like "great, was she hot?" he looked at me angry and said "you don't give a flying ****, I just told you I slept with someone else!"
from the beginning we stated we wanted no commitmment, no strings, just a fwb relationship. We BOTH agreed to this, we have talked about it several times through out the month, we never said we would be exclusive.
So I asked: "you are mad at me because I am not jealous?" he didn't answer. Needless to say the fun was over
I do not understand, what do you guys think?
This has also happened to me. My advice would be to consider ending it with him if that hasn't already happened. Not because he slept with someone -- since you both talked about it and he was allowed -- but because he is a manipulative jerk.
He is actually angry at YOU for something HE did and that you both discussed. This is the type of person that will find a reason to make you responsible for all his bad choices.
I was like "great, was she hot?" he looked at me angry and said "you don't give a flying ****, I just told you I slept with someone else!"
LOL at your "great, was she hot?"response. Whether he made the story up or not, there was absolutely no reason to tell you about it other than to get a rise out of you, and since you were so cool about it, he got upset. Oh well.
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he tells me he met someone on this trip and slept with her. 
from the beginning we stated we wanted no commitmment, no strings, just a fwb relationship. We BOTH agreed to this, we have talked about it several times through out the month, we never said we would be exclusive.
