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I have gotten some very strong signals from women and when I acted on them, have looked VERY stupid, sometimes publicly so in getting turned down.
It's so bad that I don't pay attention to female signals anymore. Unless 1) I'm sticking my tongue in her mouth or 2) she says straight up, "I like you" (which has never happened before #1), I'll assume she has absolutely no attraction to me whatsoever.
She can bat her eyebrows and smile at me, and touch me wherever she wants. I'll no longer fall for it.
Sigh. So jaded...
Pretty much exactly what happened to me with my very first girlfriend (a while before we dated). Ever since then I just assume a girl isn't attracted to me, even if it seems otherwise.
Pretty much exactly what happened to me with my very first girlfriend (a while before we dated). Ever since then I just assume a girl isn't attracted to me, even if it seems otherwise.
What's the story behind that? That sounds interesting. And if she eventually became your girlfriend, how bad could it have been?
What's the story behind that? That sounds interesting. And if she eventually became your girlfriend, how bad could it have been?
I won't go into all the details because it would be a long story, but basically she led me to believe she really liked me (and everyone I knew thought the same way I did), then when I acted upon it, she was completely surprised, saying she never saw me as anything more than a friend. Later, one of her friends basically talked her into dating me, which as you might imagine was a disaster. I spent the entire relationship wondering if she really liked me very much, being extremely hesitant to become more physically close (thanks to my initial experience with her), and she finally dumped me because I wasn't physical enough for her liking. Ever since then I've never, ever assumed a girl was attracted to me, regardless of how she acted.
I've never been good at reading a women sign that's she is into me. Unless she reaches for me or starts to kiss me I'm not getting the hint. Don't ask me why I just never caught on.
It may sound grade school, but let's discuss it further....
Perhaps signs, actions, etc.
If you're a man, look for body language.
If you're a woman, look for someone who is geniunely interested in what you say, not just a smooth talker with game. Don't worry so much about being a coy pain-in-the-ass who is 'hard to get', just make him wait for sex.
If you're a woman, look for someone who is geniunely interested in what you say, not just a smooth talker with game. Don't worry so much about being a coy pain-in-the-ass who is 'hard to get', just make him wait for sex.
So your saying men like pitas? Pain in the arse.
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Ever since then I've never, ever assumed a girl was attracted to me, regardless of how she acted.
