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yeah OP pretty much... though even if i started living the life of a pimp it would take multiple decades for women to catch up with all the wanking, but nvm that. it's not about the ammount but the quality.
For example I went to college to get laid, heard the women would be promiscuous, but so far that part have been really dissapointing, and now i'm a third way through my education. I mean graduating is good and starting a career to have a good life and all that, but it's not really worth much if you can't get women to begin with...
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....that they will have more cumulative orgasms in their lives by themselves than they ever will with a girl/woman?
I feel that way sometimes & it just really, really weighs my heart down with sadness. It's less of a problem for many other guys, I guess, but it's especially a problem for me, since I'm almost 25 & I've never had a girlfriend.
Does anyone ever feel this way? Or have you ever felt that way? I guess the best solution is to actually get a girlfriend/wife/whatever.
Sigh. I wish this part of life was easier than it is.
yeah OP pretty much... though even if i started living the life of a pimp it would take multiple decades for women to catch up with all the wanking, but nvm that. it's not about the ammount but the quality.
For example I went to college to get laid, heard the women would be promiscuous, but so far that part have been really dissapointing, and now i'm a third way through my education. I mean graduating is good and starting a career to have a good life and all that, but it's not really worth much if you can't get women to begin with...
Like everyone else said, confidence is key. There are a lot of women who do want a nice guy. You'll find someone.
yeah right. ask a nice guy about that one. Women only think they want a nice guy...... In reality they do want a nice guy, as someone to listen to them complain about all the aholes they sleep with and how terrible they are.
yeah right. ask a nice guy about that one. Women only think they want a nice guy...... In reality they do want a nice guy, as someone to listen to them complain about all the aholes they sleep with and how terrible they are.
That type of guy isn't a "nice guy" to most women, he's not even on their radar as far as dating and attraction are concerned. He might as well be her brother, her gay best friend or one of her girlfriends.
When many women say "I want a nice guy", they mean a guy who is nice to her AND fits what she is looking for (physical, financial/career, personality). Even the so-called "aholes" can fit this description in the beginning since they project their best image.
Self-proclaimed "nice guys" don't realize this. I didn't back when I used to be one.
That type of guy isn't a "nice guy" to most women, he's not even on their radar as far as dating and attraction are concerned. He might as well be a gay best friend or one of her girlfriends.
When many women say "I want a nice guy", they mean a guy who is nice to her AND fits what she is looking for (physical, financial/career, personality). Even the so-called "aholes" can fit this description in the beginning since he's putting his best foot forward.
Self-proclaimed "nice guys" don't realize this. I didn't back when I used to be one.
This is what I dealt with back when I was the stereotypical "nice guy". A lot of women want guys who treat them right, but there also needs to be attraction. Being "nice" isn't usually enough to attract someone, you have to project something more than that.
That type of guy isn't a "nice guy" to most women, he's not even on their radar as far as dating and attraction are concerned. He might as well be a gay best friend or one of her girlfriends.
When many women say "I want a nice guy", they mean a guy who is nice to her AND fits what she is looking for (physical, financial/career, personality). Even the so-called "aholes" can fit this description in the beginning since he's putting his best foot forward.
Self-proclaimed "nice guys" don't realize this. I didn't back when I used to be one.
Listen, a ridiculous ahole, I mean an ahole to everyone including the ladies, to the point that its almost criminal - will get laid 100 times as much as any nice guy. Provided, the ahole will be sleeping with girls who have some self esteem issues and other problems, but tail is tail. A nice guy would take that in a minute. I plead to any self-prolaimed nice guys out there who cant get laid - go to a bar a couple times and behave like a total ahole to everyone around you. THen come back and tell us how the sex was.
This is what I dealt with back when I was the stereotypical "nice guy". A lot of women want guys who treat them right, but there also needs to be attraction. Being "nice" isn't usually enough to attract someone, you have to project something more than that.
Being nice is a perfect way to blue ball land. Guaranteed.
Listen, a ridiculous ahole, I mean an ahole to everyone including the ladies, to the point that its almost criminal - will get laid 100 times as much as any nice guy. Provided, the ahole will be sleeping with girls who have some self esteem issues and other problems, but tail is tail. A nice guy would take that in a minute.
I wouldn't. I have standards and would rather stick with one great woman than deal with a bunch of sub par women.
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