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Well. I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume: by 'fight for her' she wasn't talking about a gladiator style match to see who wins her hand in marriage -- but instead if they're on a subway late at night and some man takes her at knife point the bf doesn't run in the opposite direction out of fear. That is the way I understood the statement, not sure if that's what she actually meant.
That's what I thought too, but she seemed to imply that her man get aggressive with someone who's "bothering" her. If my girlfriend's life is in danger I'll do anything to help her. If she's being harassed by someone but she's not in physical danger I'll try to diffuse the situation but I won't start throwing punches unless he starts to get physical.
All that said, it's unlikely Meg will ever encounter a situation that requires her future boyfriend to defend her by using force.
Well. I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume: by 'fight for her' she wasn't talking about a gladiator style match to see who wins her hand in marriage -- but instead if they're on a subway late at night and some man takes her at knife point the bf doesn't run in the opposite direction out of fear. That is the way I understood the statement, not sure if that's what she actually meant.
You're just in denial. Meg just confirms the things many men say here, but women always denie. She wants a more thug guy, but one she can control. A guy that will threaten violence even if she starts a verbal confrontation. Society has no problem with this until the thug turns on her, then she's the victim somehow.
Boy? I never called you a name nor would I. But your posts tend to point out that you don't believe that nice guys exist or that they are just myths. You tend to be crying wolf way to much here.
Try reading your post. I've posted it here so you can see exactly what you said.
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Originally Posted by reed067
I never thought I would say this, but What happened to the nice guys? The spoiled b**tches who didn't deserve them got to them first, and now they're ruined.
Like I stated above it's a two way street the women who dated the bad boys ended up the same way, damaged goods. They did it too each other.
I think Chierlgirl might fall under that catgory by her posts.
You're the typical type of guy who whines on here.
I know lots of very nice guys, always have, dated quite a few, married one.
You boys don't seem to be them.
That's what I thought too, but she seemed to imply that her man get aggressive with someone who's "bothering" her. If my girlfriend's life is in danger I'll do anything to help her. If she's being harassed by someone but she's not in physical danger I'll try to diffuse the situation but I won't start throwing punches unless he starts to get physical.
All that said, it's unlikely Meg will ever encounter a situation that requires her future boyfriend to defend her by using force.
ah, ok. I don't know what she was implying as far as the physical aggression vs. verbal aggression. I agree with everything else you said, but wouldn't expect a man to actually do any of it in real life. As I've come to know when the going gets tough, they tend to get going
You're just in denial. Meg just confirms the things many men say here, but women always denie. She wants a more thug guy, but one she can control. A guy that will threaten violence even if she starts a verbal confrontation. Society has no problem with this until the thug turns on her, then she's the victim somehow.
I'm not in denial about anything. I really did think that's what she meant. And I've said it a million times none of you are nice guys in the first place, you're all 'thugs' in one sense or another. Case in point, your last sentence:
... yea, I don't condone men beating the sh*t out of women simply because they can beat the sh*t out of a man, which is essentially what you're saying. But this doesn't surprise me in the least.
I'm not in denial about anything. I really did think that's what she meant. And I've said it a million times none of you are nice guys in the first place, you're all thugs in one sense or another. Case in point, your last sentence:
... yea, I don't condone men beating the sh*t out of women simply because they can beat the sh*t out of a man, which is essentially what you're saying. But this doesn't surprise me in the least.
She's wants a guy that's like a mercenary, its all cool until he beats the crap out of her or ditches her with two kids. Sadly, she will probably end up being damaged goods and married to a guy she wouldn't date when she was younger and childless. All the good women are married by 25, and almost never end up divorced.
I meant 'thugs' in mentality as well not just physically. Just like I said about that guy's comments about 'victims' and crap. That's how they think. It all comes out in the wash. But if you think the guys you like aren't thugs, fine with me. no skin off my nose.
She's wants a guy that's like a mercenary, its all cool until he beats the crap out of her or ditches her with two kids. Sadly, she will probably end up being damaged goods and married to a guy she wouldn't date when she was younger and childless. All the good women are married by 25, and almost never end up divorced.
Yea, OK, like I said not surprised in the least you feel these things. You guys really like that 'damaged goods' saying, huh? LOL.
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I never called you a name nor would I. But your posts tend to point out that you don't believe that nice guys exist or that they are just myths. You tend to be crying wolf way to much here.
