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Old 02-14-2012, 01:58 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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Can't you read?
I did read. My response was I don't care if your "D" makes sparks fly out my ass. Sounds like that's all you got going for you and there's plenty of other options for a much better package deal..
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Old 02-14-2012, 02:03 PM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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I did read. My response was I don't care if your "D" makes sparks fly out my ass. Sounds like that's all you got going for you and there's plenty of other options for a much better package deal..
Ok.
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Old 02-14-2012, 02:17 PM
 
Location: downtown Sarasota
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Thank you all for the great replies, also some of you for the entertainment. I would like to say I wasn't planning on a second date with this particular man. However, my question was in terms of future dates, and if women have found men to be more cheap when first dating or they get worse as time goes on? Money is not an issue for me, it's just the point of courtesy, and I guess I was raised a different way. I agree, I wouldn't want to date a woman either
If he was cheap on the first date, it's not going to change.

The way someone treats their server usually says a lot about how they treat others.

When I met my xh he had blown off a date w/his fiancee for me, I should have taken that as a red flag.

If a man asks you out on a date, he pays; let him be a man...
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Old 02-14-2012, 03:08 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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Can women explain to me why it's ok to expect the man to pay for dinner but its wrong for a man to expect sex just because he paid for dinner? Why is it wrong when a man doesn't want to date a single woman with kids but its ok for women to feel the same about men? Double standards, gotta love em.
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Old 02-14-2012, 03:19 PM
 
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Can women explain to me why it's ok to expect the man to pay for dinner but its wrong for a man to expect sex just because he paid for dinner? Why is it wrong when a man doesn't want to date a single woman with kids but its ok for women to feel the same about men? Double standards, gotta love em.
Sorry. I'm a woman, and I can't explain any of that. I hate double standards too. We're not ALL like that!
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Old 02-14-2012, 03:33 PM
 
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god i hope you were being saracastic when you wrote that....i'll leave it up to you to determine what post im talking about
I'd rep you if I could.
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Old 02-14-2012, 05:57 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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The person did that because they got terrible service, not as a social experiment!

If you get horrible service, then fine. But to do it just for sh*ts and giggles and stiff some poor server is the kind of thing that I just don't understand. It sounds like you may have.... issues.
I think he likes to make statements for shock value and never take him seriously. I'll play along.
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Old 02-14-2012, 07:24 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Can women explain to me why it's ok to expect the man to pay for dinner but its wrong for a man to expect sex just because he paid for dinner? Why is it wrong when a man doesn't want to date a single woman with kids but its ok for women to feel the same about men? Double standards, gotta love em.
Sex is worth more than one lousy dinner. We expect you to woo us.
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Old 02-14-2012, 07:43 PM
 
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for some reason, I just knew you would post in this thread..
Yup. A foregone conclusion.
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Old 02-14-2012, 08:03 PM
 
Location: FL
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Sex is worth more than one lousy dinner. We expect you to woo us.
How many dinners and drinks is sex worth? Some women value it at one dinner while others value it at no dinnesr, while other tease it for several dinners while not handing out any. And how long do we men woo you? Aren't you supposed to also woo us? Or is enough just for us to bask in the glory that is your presence?
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