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So - this is the original quote. I agree with him. If men think that a woman owes him anything because he picked up the tab on a date - he should just go date a prostitute. Dating isn't about owing someone something. If someone pays - it should be because they are being generous - not because they want something in return. I actually think this is a good lesson for life in general. However, until I'm actually pretty close with someone - I'm not comfortable with them spending a lot on me or anything. So I get the reverse point of view to a certain point.
See - you basically called him a liar. Not sure why. Not all men are the same. I'm sorry if you've had bad luck with men in the past - but I assure you - there are good ones out there. And if anything - he was insulting the men who expect something from a woman and not the women at all.
I think we all need to take a step back. My favorite color is purple! (that's what I say when things get uncomfortable...)
I don't care about his original quote. I care about the crap he said after it, why don't you read that as well. He was taking it personally that I called him a liar as if it was something about him specifically and it's actually not about him at all... I get sick of people telling me how I should think, I don't tell others how they should think. If they CHOOSE to agree or disagree otherwise then that is their buisness. Assuming everyone on here is going off of their own experiences, I am going off of mine as well.When and if I ever come to know differently, I will let you know. Saying that 'there's good men out there' and assuring me of such, is your opinion and your experience.
I don't care about his original quote. I care about the crap he said after it, why don't you read that as well. He was taking it personally that I called him a liar as if it was something about him specifically and it's actually not about him at all... I get sick of people telling me how I should think, I don't tell others how they should think. If they CHOOSE to agree or disagree otherwise then that is their buisness. Assuming everyone on here is going off of their own experiences, I am going off of mine as well.When and if I ever come to know differently, I will let you know. Saying that 'there's good men out there' and assuring me of such, is your opinion and your experience.
My favorite color is blue.
Okay... but just for future reference - most people take it personally when you call them a liar - no matter if you mean it specifically or generally. It's just not a very nice thing to say to anyone.
Ugg, that was after you attacked me for saying that I pay for the first date. That was after you attacked me for no reason. Remember? That was when nothing I said mattered. You had your mind made up and there was no compromise. Then you used my name in another little rant..So please spare me the tears. You brought this on yourself. Next time pick better battles. I was never against you like you thought I was.
I didn't attack you. Yes I have my mind made up on the matter, the same as you. You had a problem with my original opinion of not accepting a man paying for me on dates and started talking about if people think someone owes them something then, blah blah blah. Without ever considering that YES SOME people do think if a person pays for them it is uncomfortable and this doesn't equate to anything more than that.
All of this 'spare me the tears and pick your battles' is B.S. this is a message board for God's sake. I am not picking any battles or crying over anything.
Okay... but just for future reference - most people take it personally when you call them a liar - no matter if you mean it specifically or generally. It's just not a very nice thing to say to anyone.
Yea well neither was the crap that he said. So call it square.
I don't care about his original quote. I care about the crap he said after it, why don't you read that as well. He was taking it personally that I called him a liar as if it was something about him specifically and it's actually not about him at all... I get sick of people telling me how I should think, I don't tell others how they should think. If they CHOOSE to agree or disagree otherwise then that is their buisness. Assuming everyone on here is going off of their own experiences, I am going off of mine as well.When and if I ever come to know differently, I will let you know. Saying that 'there's good men out there' and assuring me of such, is your opinion and your experience.
My favorite color is blue.
I won't tell you how to think. I was suggesting you step back and think about your words because they sounded a little crazy. I thought maybe you were just getting riled up by one poster and didn't mean what you said. I guess I was wrong. But please carry on...Who am I to stop you from portraying yourself as a scorned bitter woman with a very large chip on her shoulder. It's entertaining to say the least
I don't care about his original quote. I care about the crap he said after it, why don't you read that as well. He was taking it personally that I called him a liar as if it was something about him specifically and it's actually not about him at all... I get sick of people telling me how I should think, I don't tell others how they should think. If they CHOOSE to agree or disagree otherwise then that is their buisness. Assuming everyone on here is going off of their own experiences, I am going off of mine as well.When and if I ever come to know differently, I will let you know. Saying that 'there's good men out there' and assuring me of such, is your opinion and your experience.
My favorite color is blue.
I don't know anyone who won't take it personally when called a liar. I'm sorry you have had bad experiences with men. But I'm obligated to call you out with painting with such a broad brush... I've done it numerous times with the men here.
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