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Unread 02-14-2012, 01:05 PM
 
Location: North Hollywood
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Default Question for guys and girls - if a date asks to visit your apartment do you assume that he/she wants ot have sex?

What do you think? In my experience it has turned out to be true...
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Unread 02-14-2012, 01:07 PM
 
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If it's at the end of the date, yes.

If he/she calls up the next day and wants to stop over and hang out, not necessarily.
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Unread 02-14-2012, 01:15 PM
 
Location: Massachusetts
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In my experience the men who have invited me to their place had some expectations other than "watching a movie." But I doubt ALL men would think this way, if it's something you are not sure/confortable about just be honest and up front before going to their apartments.
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Unread 02-14-2012, 01:17 PM
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Location: Brooklyn, NY born & raised!
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Yes, especially at the end of the date. In my experience anyone who suggests going back to the apt early on in dating is expecting sex.
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Unread 02-14-2012, 07:40 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Sometimes. But not always.
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Unread 02-14-2012, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Michigan
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I think it is wrong for someone to invite someone up to their room if they are not wanting to have sex. That is just screaming false signs. If I was invited up to a room, I'd make a move for sex 100% of the time.
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Unread 02-14-2012, 07:52 PM
 
Location: Not far from Fairbanks, AK
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What do you think? In my experience it has turned out to be true...
Yes.
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Unread 02-14-2012, 08:12 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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In my experience the men who have invited me to their place had some expectations other than "watching a movie." But I doubt ALL men would think this way
Is that an honest opinion or a chicken-ish disclaimer meant to save you from the pack of wolves (or more likely bit*ches)?

I bet every single exception will soon be found here!
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Unread 02-14-2012, 08:16 PM
 
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I was invited by someone who was going to "cook dinner for me" for a first date. He texted me like 2 hours prior saying he was drinking already and he couldn't wait to give me oral sex. That was the end. I will never make that mistake anymore. I would say a high majority is expecting some sort of action if they invite you to their house..IMO
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Unread 02-14-2012, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Massachusetts
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Is that an honest opinion or a chicken-ish disclaimer meant to save you from the pack of wolves (or more likely bit*ches)?

I bet every single exception will soon be found here!
Hahaha, yes it is an honest opinions. I refuse to believe there aren't any good men out there, althought Sierra, these men are making it tough

Ask me this question again in couple of months
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