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Old 02-15-2012, 08:10 PM
 
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Dating a divorced guy who had a few mistresses in the past and loads of former girlfriends.

He tells me he want to have a SERIOUS relationship which is cool with me.

He is VERY VERY VERY friendly will A LOTTTTTTTTTT of X-GF's and X-Mistresses.


On his facebook I feel these ladies show me no respect knowing that he is dating me with remarks that are very sexual and just pushing it. When i tell him how I feel he told me that i sound jealous of women who are not with him any longer and i need to tuffen up and stop being insecure .

I am having second thoughts. I really like him but.............
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Old 02-15-2012, 08:21 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Is this a joke?
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Old 02-15-2012, 08:29 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I have no problem with a guy who has a lot of ex's because he was looking for nothing serious.

I WOULD have a problem with a guy who allows improper behavior when he is supposed to be in a serious relationship.

By having a problem I mean I would stop seeing him. There would be no requests. If he can't determine how to treat me properly, then we really have nothing to discuss.
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Old 02-15-2012, 08:38 PM
 
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Dating a divorced guy who had a few mistresses in the past and loads of former girlfriends.

He tells me he want to have a SERIOUS relationship which is cool with me.

He is VERY VERY VERY friendly will A LOTTTTTTTTTT of X-GF's and X-Mistresses.


On his facebook I feel these ladies show me no respect knowing that he is dating me with remarks that are very sexual and just pushing it. When i tell him how I feel he told me that i sound jealous of women who are not with him any longer and i need to tuffen up and stop being insecure .

I am having second thoughts. I really like him but.............
Go with your gut sweetie and let him go.

He's trash.

He's trying to make YOU feel bad for not ALLOWING yourself to be DISRESPECTED. You know he's garbage that's why you posted.
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Old 02-15-2012, 08:39 PM
 
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I have no problem with a guy who has a lot of ex's because he was looking for nothing serious.

I WOULD have a problem with a guy who allows improper behavior when he is supposed to be in a serious relationship.

By having a problem I mean I would stop seeing him. There would be no requests. If he can't determine how to treat me properly, then we really have nothing to discuss.
Thank you.
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Old 02-15-2012, 08:45 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Is this a joke?
Thank you for asking this question.....
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Old 02-15-2012, 08:46 PM
 
Location: Blah
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Sounds like a free case of STD's to me
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Old 02-15-2012, 08:55 PM
 
Location: Pawnee Nation
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Whats the difference between ex girlfriends and ex mistresses, please?
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Old 02-15-2012, 09:02 PM
 
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Whats the difference between ex girlfriends and ex mistresses, please?

GF'S are gals he dated when he was not married Mistresses are women he dated and had a ffairs with when he was married.
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Old 02-15-2012, 09:03 PM
 
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Is this a joke?
why would you think its a joke? I'm not the only person on Planet Earth that has to deal with bf's friends with xgf's and Mistresses.......
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