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Old 02-22-2012, 03:35 PM
 
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There seems to be a lot of men on here that think really poorly of women. What happened to make you so bitter/jaded about women?

Also I'm curious as to what are your ages. I'm only 28 so maybe I haven't been burned yet? I read terrible anecdotes about how bitchy/demanding/drama queen some women are but then I've never met any of these women in real life.

I wonder if high intelligence is correlated with being nicer/more civilized behavior.
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Old 02-22-2012, 03:39 PM
 
Location: MA
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I don't think men bouce back as easily from being hurt as woman - we can be a heartless bunch (i.e. women). Men may be more tough, but its an act and they actually are the nicer of the two genders. Please don't tell my husband I admit that!
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Old 02-22-2012, 03:42 PM
 
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People who allow themselves to be bitter are just weak people.
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Old 02-22-2012, 03:45 PM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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I think people can become bitter/jaded when they've been hurt deeply. If they're hurt deeply repeatedly that can compound the problem. It can very hard to bounce back from a broken heart and broken trust, but you need to do it for yourself.
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Old 02-22-2012, 03:51 PM
 
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Default jaded...

Just negative experiences I guess. Not having what they expected by a certain time in life.
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Old 02-22-2012, 03:52 PM
 
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Message boards.
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Old 02-22-2012, 03:55 PM
 
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Message boards.

Beat me to it. This one is starting to feel like a daycare center for crybabies.
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Old 02-22-2012, 04:00 PM
 
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There seems to be a lot of men on here that think really poorly of women. What happened to make you so bitter/jaded about women?

Also I'm curious as to what are your ages. I'm only 28 so maybe I haven't been burned yet? I read terrible anecdotes about how bitchy/demanding/drama queen some women are but then I've never met any of these women in real life.

I wonder if high intelligence is correlated with being nicer/more civilized behavior.
Some really are. Don't let it get to you. All of the ones that I've come across like that in the past, other women didn't like them either.
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Old 02-22-2012, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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There seems to be a lot of men on here that think really poorly of women. What happened to make you so bitter/jaded about women?

Also I'm curious as to what are your ages. I'm only 28 so maybe I haven't been burned yet? I read terrible anecdotes about how bitchy/demanding/drama queen some women are but then I've never met any of these women in real life.

I wonder if high intelligence is correlated with being nicer/more civilized behavior.
Nope. Bitchy/demanding/drama queen(both male and female ) come in all classes.
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Old 02-22-2012, 04:20 PM
 
Location: Michigan
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I think people can become bitter/jaded when they've been hurt deeply. If they're hurt deeply repeatedly that can compound the problem. It can very hard to bounce back from a broken heart and broken trust, but you need to do it for yourself.

I agree, but they can't seem to bounce back, they were hurt too bad by someone(else).

Easier to blame the women than it is to blame themselves. They must not be able to see their faults for the tears in their eyes. Maybe they picked the wrong woman to begin with but it's easier to think that we're all like that then it is to think they made a mistake in who they chose.

Maybe it's just a guy thing. Or maybe those type are drawn to these boards where they can vent.
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