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Old 02-22-2012, 09:49 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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could a girl ever behave in such a way that even though initially you were thinking of a relationship..that she could change your mind into just wanting casual sex?
Yes. It's happened to me many times.
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Old 02-22-2012, 09:52 PM
 
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Yes. It's happened to me many times.
What do they do that causes that change with you?
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Old 02-22-2012, 09:55 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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What do they do that causes that change with you?
Typically they're raging sluts. I'll stick my latex covered member in a ****, but I'm not getting into a relationship with one. That's the biggest issue. Some of them have pissed me off but were hot enough I still wanted to sleep with them.

There are a myriad of reasons that can come up though.
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Old 02-22-2012, 09:58 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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What separates it? EASY, the woman separates it. A woman is a booty call when the guy has no interest and the girl won't stop trying so hard and when the guy wants to get laid he calls her and the girl happily lets him take advantage.

This is the female version of the guy who is a pushover and gets walked all over by the girl, but at least the pushover girl gets laid.
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Old 02-22-2012, 10:05 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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could a girl ever behave in such a way that even though initially you were thinking of a relationship..that she could change your mind into just wanting casual sex?
I suppose it could happen. Off the top of my head, being a beeyotch or making a fool of herself in public on numerous occasions would count against her, fighting with other women a la Jersey Shore, etc. I wouldn't want to be with someone in a relationship that caused me stress, but at that point I might consider hanging around long enough to "relieve" it.

When these things happen, though, I wouldn't stick around. I'd just find someone else.
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Old 02-22-2012, 10:07 PM
 
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What separates it? EASY, the woman separates it. A woman is a booty call when the guy has no interest and the girl won't stop trying so hard and when the guy wants to get laid he calls her and the girl happily lets him take advantage.

This is the female version of the guy who is a pushover and gets walked all over by the girl, but at least the pushover girl gets laid.
hahaha..ya that's obvious. I'm talking about girls who are lady like and polite..yet some guys either try their chance or they just ditch her once they see she isn't putting out.
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Old 02-22-2012, 10:32 PM
 
Location: West Los Angeles
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Well first off, there is definitely a middle ground between relationship & booty call. They're somewhat extreme ends of the spectrum. I mean, booty call sounds pretty disrespectful, like calling some girl at midnight when you're drunk, etc.

That middle ground for me would be girls that I want to go out on dates with, ya know treat them well, have dinner, watch a movie, go to a bar/club, or whatever...and then have sex with, but not want to marry her or call her my girlfriend.
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Old 02-22-2012, 10:35 PM
 
Location: southern california
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some women simply are not interested in sex. smart educated and great companions but the sex thing is just not there.
maybe emotionally damaged women are unable to have sex, but can do everything else.
but for the other type, low education, hopeless dead head, but great in the sack, we dont have to look for other activities do we.
we dont always get everything we want in one single package.
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Old 02-22-2012, 10:40 PM
 
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some women simply are not interested in sex. smart educated and great companions but the sex thing is just not there.
maybe emotionally damaged women are unable to have sex but can do everything else.
but for the other type, sex, if she is good in the sack we dont have to look for other activities do we.
we dont always get everything we want in one single package.
if you're telling me, at 25 years old that that's what I Have to look forward to in my life, that I either have to have great sex and nothing else or great companion but bad sex..then my I might as well give up on life.
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Old 02-22-2012, 10:46 PM
 
Location: southern california
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if you're telling me, at 25 years old that that's what I Have to look forward to in my life, that I either have to have great sex and nothing else or great companion but bad sex..then my I might as well give up on life.
i have tried the

Pygmalion

thing with deadhead gals that were good in the sack-- big mistake. have also tried to cultivate romance with gals dead from the waist down. i like running up steep hills covered with mud dont i? but that is another subject. dont give up but dont expect the guy to fix u. not his job.
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