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Old 02-24-2012, 08:57 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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Originally Posted by lovesMountains View Post
She doesn't want sex , she needs to be wanted.

^^^^
THIS!!! x 10!


There are lots of remarks here summing it up, and "facts" of idiocy, which are true enough.

But this one -- that's it. This girl is getting her self-esteem validation through her asinine BF's attentions. His particular "needs" can't be reined in for three weeks or so, all time given? OTHER sexual performance options aren't good enough for a couple?!?

This guy doesn't care about her in the least -- and not to be mean, but why would he? She clearly doesn't care about herself, has marked her own price tag as "worthless" -- and people READ your self-marked price tag and treat you as the value stated.
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Old 02-24-2012, 09:02 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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She's not the sharpest tool in the shed and probably wants sex too.
I suspect this. At age 20--not my smartest years by far--I wasn't supposed to have sex for six weeks after my first baby but I wanted to and did something stupid with my husband.
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Old 02-24-2012, 09:59 AM
 
Location: PA
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just blow the guy lol
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Old 02-24-2012, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Ada, Ok
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You know what i can tell you that women can deal with all kinds of pressure and be strong and say no to all types of things but when it comes to a relationship whether it be an emotional or physical on any level have trouble whenever they are pressured and sometimes cant say no and are truely confused...
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Old 02-24-2012, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Originally Posted by ChiGuy2.5 View Post
He would probably be just as happy with a BJ. I am thinking she wants to have sex too. Regardless, women usually let themselves get treated like crap because of the daddy daughter relationship when they were younger.

At least, that is my moms case.
Not the point now is it? the point is, she just had a procedure done, she is in pain, and yet he has no care for her health... AND SHE LET'S HIM!!

But, she has no care for her-self either... so why should he?
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Old 02-24-2012, 10:06 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Originally Posted by Urban Sasquatch View Post
^^^^
THIS!!! x 10!


There are lots of remarks here summing it up, and "facts" of idiocy, which are true enough.

But this one -- that's it. This girl is getting her self-esteem validation through her asinine BF's attentions. His particular "needs" can't be reined in for three weeks or so, all time given? OTHER sexual performance options aren't good enough for a couple?!?

This guy doesn't care about her in the least -- and not to be mean, but why would he? She clearly doesn't care about herself, has marked her own price tag as "worthless" -- and people READ your self-marked price tag and treat you as the value stated.
Exactly
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Old 02-24-2012, 10:07 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Originally Posted by lovesMountains View Post
She doesn't want sex , she needs to be wanted.
Yeah, and he knows it...
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Old 02-24-2012, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Originally Posted by Urban Sasquatch View Post
^^^^
THIS!!! x 10!


There are lots of remarks here summing it up, and "facts" of idiocy, which are true enough.

But this one -- that's it. This girl is getting her self-esteem validation through her asinine BF's attentions. His particular "needs" can't be reined in for three weeks or so, all time given? OTHER sexual performance options aren't good enough for a couple?!?

This guy doesn't care about her in the least -- and not to be mean, but why would he? She clearly doesn't care about herself, has marked her own price tag as "worthless" -- and people READ your self-marked price tag and treat you as the value stated.
well said!!!
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Old 02-24-2012, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Originally Posted by ianwebster4523 View Post
You know what i can tell you that women can deal with all kinds of pressure and be strong and say no to all types of things but when it comes to a relationship whether it be an emotional or physical on any level have trouble whenever they are pressured and sometimes cant say no and are truely confused...
I guess we've all acted stupid at one point or another because of a lover. I just think this is extreme idiocy though... this is not just being treated as a doormat, or getting cheated on and forgiving the lies, this is putting your health at risk!! your life!
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Old 02-24-2012, 10:13 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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You just want to take young women like this and shake some sense in to them (figuratively of course).
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