Guy I'm seeing disappeared. Why?! (man, family, issues, respect)

[Red On The Noodle]

If you read this forum much, you should not be surprised he disappeared. That seems to be the norm here. It's more amazing to read about the ones that actually stayed around

[jasper12]

Just chill, you called, you texted, no answer. Move on, no drama...

His phone could not be working.
He could be busy.
He is just tired of you.

Just chill, and let him make the next move. There are many reasons why he did not call. Just give it some space. He might call you, or not. Move forward with your life.

[JerZ]

Originally Posted by jasper12

Just chill, you called, you texted, no answer. Move on, no drama...

This. There's nothing more you really need to do. However, personally, if a guy and I had this kind of a history and then, after ignoring me again for a while, called and talked about potentially having sex the next weekend, he'd be off my possibilities *and* my friends list. Friends don't act like that and neither do boyfriends so what's left?

Just go on and have your own plans and have some fun, it's Saturday. I hope you have an awesome weekend.

[dynimagelv]

he found a pretty piece of string on the floor and got distracted.

[ucbrian]

Originally Posted by smalltowngirl25

I have been seeing this guy I'm going to school with and doing my internship with for a couple months. I find that he is fun to be around when he is around. However, he is not around often unless we are together at school or our internship site. Anyway, last week my mom's car broke down and I let her borrow mine and my guy has been giving me rides. Last week we almost had sex but I decided not to at the time and he respected that and we talked about hanging out this weekend instead. The only thing is that he has not responded to my calls or texts and it's like he's fallen off the face of the earth without any explanation.

Ask him how he feels about you if you guys ever talk again. Ask him in person, not over the phone.

If it's just physical and you're fine with that...then let the games begin.

If' you're looking for more, then move on.

[Capt. Dan]

Originally Posted by smalltowngirl25

I have been seeing this guy I'm going to school with and doing my internship with for a couple months. I find that he is fun to be around when he is around. However, he is not around often unless we are together at school or our internship site. Anyway, last week my mom's car broke down and I let her borrow mine and my guy has been giving me rides. Last week we almost had sex but I decided not to at the time and he respected that and we talked about hanging out this weekend instead. The only thing is that he has not responded to my calls or texts and it's like he's fallen off the face of the earth without any explanation.

It's all Obamas fault!

[claud605]

read the book "He's Just Not That Into You"...it will explain everything.

[Dollydo]

No sexty no texty.

[ChiGuy2.5]

Originally Posted by mr bolo

he probably met another girl, 9 times out of 10, he found someone else

Originally Posted by Bosco55David

Most likely scenario here.

I dont agree with either of these posters at all. Before you get this thought into your head consider this. Maybe he has just been really busy? I get busy sometimes and dont really have the energy to strike up long conversations.

Now, the real question you should be asking is "Why isn't he interested enough to talk to me?". That is the REAL problem. Even if he's met another girl your issue is that you aren't interesting enough to him. This CAN be changed. Maybe, hes in it only for the sex? In which case you would need to either put out, or drop him. I would suggest the latter. Maybe, your conversation isn't interesting? In which case, how can YOU make better?

It all boils down to this, maybe hes just not that into you.

[HonestOne1]

Originally Posted by smalltowngirl25

Last week we almost had sex but I decided not to at the time.

Sounds like you thought you called the shots on sex and when it would happen...and you wuz wrong.