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Old 02-25-2012, 12:35 PM
 
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I have been seeing this guy I'm going to school with and doing my internship with for a couple months. I find that he is fun to be around when he is around. However, he is not around often unless we are together at school or our internship site. Anyway, last week my mom's car broke down and I let her borrow mine and my guy has been giving me rides. Last week we almost had sex but I decided not to at the time and he respected that and we talked about hanging out this weekend instead. The only thing is that he has not responded to my calls or texts and it's like he's fallen off the face of the earth without any explanation.
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Old 02-25-2012, 12:37 PM
 
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Clearly no sex=no contact.
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Old 02-25-2012, 12:41 PM
 
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But we talked about doing that this weekend! And there was contact after that episode.
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Old 02-25-2012, 12:44 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I have been seeing this guy I'm going to school with and doing my internship with for a couple months. I find that he is fun to be around when he is around. However, he is not around often unless we are together at school or our internship site. Anyway, last week my mom's car broke down and I let her borrow mine and my guy has been giving me rides. Last week we almost had sex but I decided not to at the time and he respected that and we talked about hanging out this weekend instead. The only thing is that he has not responded to my calls or texts and it's like he's fallen off the face of the earth without any explanation.
Guys this age can be easily distracted.

Most likely something, or someone, else can into his field of vision which has distracted him

Play it cool!! This is no time to get clingy
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Old 02-25-2012, 12:45 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Clearly no sex=no contact.
And if this is the case, then she dodged a bullet by NOT having sex with him in the first place
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Old 02-25-2012, 12:46 PM
 
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Where do you live?? Has he not shown up for internship, or school? If you suspect foul play?? Maybe you should report him missing? Or, it could be as the poster said, just not having contact w/ you...it happens. You decide.
After answering I checked some of your other threads. Seems a guy disappeared on you last month (Jan.), and Nov. before that also...almost to the day. If these are not threads related to the same guy...something is really wrong. I suspect you are doing something to turn these guys off. Now, you need to change your game plan. But, I do not think that a young person should ever compromise their moral standards, don't have sex w/ someone just to keep them in your life. In fact, stop even discussing sex as an option until you've known someone for a couple months next time...see if that works better for you.

Last edited by JanND; 02-25-2012 at 12:58 PM.. Reason: added sentence
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Old 02-25-2012, 12:49 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I have been seeing this guy I'm going to school with and doing my internship with for a couple months. I find that he is fun to be around when he is around. However, he is not around often unless we are together at school or our internship site. Anyway, last week my mom's car broke down and I let her borrow mine and my guy has been giving me rides. Last week we almost had sex but I decided not to at the time and he respected that and we talked about hanging out this weekend instead. The only thing is that he has not responded to my calls or texts and it's like he's fallen off the face of the earth without any explanation.
Either he has been kidnapped, Or he is doing "The fade." The way some end things without a confrontation. Not cool, But some do it anyway. Move on, And be glad you did not give yourself to someone who is clearly an immature tool.
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Old 02-25-2012, 12:57 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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But we talked about doing that this weekend! And there was contact after that episode.
He told you what you wanted to hear to end the issue. I do it every day at work.
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Old 02-25-2012, 01:02 PM
 
Location: San Francisco, California
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he probably met another girl, 9 times out of 10, he found someone else
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Old 02-25-2012, 01:09 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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he probably met another girl, 9 times out of 10, he found someone else
Most likely scenario here.
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