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Old 03-05-2012, 09:08 AM
 
Location: somewhere in the Midwest
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Just an update:

I texted this woman last night and told her that I like her but we should just be friends. In the text, I told her that a lady whom I also met online awhile back contacted me yesterday and I have more in common with this other lady, and I wanted to begin a journey with this other lady and see how it goes. She replied that she was glad that I said that, and she felt the same way. So it is better just to be honest with your feelings and move on.
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Old 03-05-2012, 09:09 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Just an update:

I texted this woman last night and told her that I like her but we should just be friends. I texted her and told her that a lady whom I also met online awhile back contacted me yesterday and I have more in common with her, and I wanted to begin a journey with this other lady and see how it goes.

I would've left out the last part. Probably made her feel like crap.
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Old 03-05-2012, 09:43 AM
 
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Hi everyone

I met this woman online. She ignored me previously on a different dating site (Plenty of Fish) a year ago, but recently, she became interested on OkCupid. She had nice pictures of herself online (two pictures were of her face and one picture was a full picture which showed that she had a curvy body. But she was overweight when I met her in person on Wednesday night at a restaurant. So I think that picture was an older picture. On Friday night, she texted me and asked me "Are you sure that you don't want to come over tonight?" after I texted her that I couldn't because I will be at a birthday party late that night after work. Last night, after work, she came to my place and we watched TV. We drank wine, ate some chips, and went to bed. After some foreplay, I put the condom on, and we had sex. I fell asleep shortly thereafter. But at about 3:15 am, she told me that she couldn't sleep and she would go home. That has never happened to me before! I asked if I could walk her to her car, but she declined. But she still wants to go on another date with me tonight at a restaurant downtown. She texted me this morning when I was at the gym to tell me good morning and she couldn't stop thinking of me. Has this happened to any of you before? What are you thoughts on this?
Apparently you have good chips.

Anyways, she wants to eat more with you I guess.
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Old 03-05-2012, 09:45 AM
 
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Just an update:

I texted this woman last night and told her that I like her but we should just be friends. In the text, I told her that a lady whom I also met online awhile back contacted me yesterday and I have more in common with this other lady, and I wanted to begin a journey with this other lady and see how it goes. She replied that she was glad that I said that, and she felt the same way. So it is better just to be honest with your feelings and move on.
Classy man~~real classy.

I text her and told her I want to begin a journey with another lady. WOW~!

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Old 03-05-2012, 12:13 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Just an update:

I texted this woman last night and told her that I like her but we should just be friends. In the text, I told her that a lady whom I also met online awhile back contacted me yesterday and I have more in common with this other lady, and I wanted to begin a journey with this other lady and see how it goes. She replied that she was glad that I said that, and she felt the same way. So it is better just to be honest with your feelings and move on.
What's she supposed to say? "No. Please don't move on." If she really did like you, guarantee she hung up the phone and cried, still would've left that last bit out about the other woman. But whatever.
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Old 03-05-2012, 12:44 PM
 
Location: USA
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What's she supposed to say? "No. Please don't move on." If she really did like you, guarantee she hung up the phone and cried, still would've left that last bit out about the other woman. But whatever.
Yeah, nobody wants to hear they have been left for someone else even if that is the reality of the situation. Cut it off and move on with out details.
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Old 03-05-2012, 01:25 PM
 
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Classy man~~real classy.

I text her and told her I want to begin a journey with another lady. WOW~!

The OP said in an earlier post that he's not that experienced with the dating world.

I'm cutting him slack because of that.

But you guys can continue to "teach" him in your own very special ways.
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Old 03-05-2012, 01:28 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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The OP said in an earlier post that he's not that experienced with the dating world.

I'm cutting him slack because of that.

But you guys can continue to "teach" him in your own very special ways.

No body cuts anybody any slack on here.
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Old 03-05-2012, 01:29 PM
 
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No body cuts anybody any slack on here.
ROFLMAO!!!!

Meanies.
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Old 03-05-2012, 01:31 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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ROFLMAO!!!!

Meanies.





cut me some slack....
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