Originally Posted by marilyn220
...on a bed you're about to spend the night in, the other person suddenly tells you to put on your underwear, because they don't sleep NUDE in THEIR bed, what would you do, say or think?
I just had this conversation with a friend of mine and she said the guy asked her to do this and she said "Why?" He said because he doesn't like people naked in his bed. She said, but we just had crazy sex on the bed with no clothes on, so what different does it make?
He said it was a "pet peeve" of his and that he wouldn't be able to sleep if she didn't put her underwear back on. LOLOLOL!!!
Yes, I bust out laughing when she told me the story. She said she told him she'd rather sleep NAKED in HER bed like she always does and will just hop in her car and go home.
He tried to convince her to stay, but she was immediately turned off and said that even though she enjoyed herself, she had a lot of errands to run the next day and it was best that she woke up in her own bed.
She's not sure if she's going to see him again, but if she does the night will end at HER house not his.
What do you guys makes of this? What would you have done? Do you find this one of those "strange" things that make you go "Hmmmm..."
A little odd, but nothing really weird. I'd say if it's just for the two to sow some oats, then keep it physical and safe and your friend better put her thong back on after the event.
If she thinks there is a relationship, it's silly for her to spill the beans to a friend (you) so fast and early on; unless the relationship is over, b/c she's basically building a support structure to topple any potential relationship with this guy.
A smart girl would see if there's anything else with this guy, any good things other than the sex. If there are a lot of good things, all this underwear stuff is a minor point. I'd put my underwear on after sex, if I found out everything else about the person was awesome including the wild sex. I couldn't care less what social norms were or what anyone thought about it.
Keep it real!