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Unread 03-11-2012, 09:09 PM
 
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Thanks so much! After all I have been through, it was like a breath of fresh air. It was a wonderful date.
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Unread 03-11-2012, 09:27 PM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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Good to hear, Miss Lucky!
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Unread 03-12-2012, 08:46 AM
 
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Gosh, John, I didn't realize you live in my neighborhood for God's sake
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Unread 03-12-2012, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Simpsonville, SC
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Hi there!

Gosh, it seems like you haven't been so luck in the dating department (Hugs)

I will tell you that I learned that internet dating can be very tricky. I talked to this one person a long time; we started casually chatting and then we exchanged pics. I liked what I saw, and we continued talking exchanging e-mails for a couple of weeks, until we met (We lived 100 miles apart)

So we meet in this Wal Mart parking lot, and I had no clue what my date was driving. I seen this really old person circling the parking lot a few times, but didn't think nothing of it. Anyhow, this person parks a few spots from me, comes out of the car and calls my by name. She then continues on to say "Oh, I'm sorry, that picture I sent, was me in 1971"... but I still look good. I was speechless so I left.

I do hope that you can find the ideal partner... it is hard. Know at least, that there are others out there that have had some weird predicaments and have gone through a similar situation dating. Good luck

RedJohn
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Unread 03-12-2012, 12:43 PM
 
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^^I'm sorry but that was funny!! LOL!

Internet is full of all sorts of people, so you are basically taking your chances. I met yesterday's date in real life at a cocktail reception, and it was so refreshing to have a "normal" date again. Maybe I'll stick to meeting people in real life from now on.
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Unread 03-12-2012, 07:47 PM
 
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Run! Run like the wind. This guy is trouble and will only make you miserable. (This is in response to your op.)
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Unread 03-12-2012, 10:07 PM
 
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I think he is letting you know that you are in the "friend" category. Not serious "relationship" category. In his mind, he has put you as a friend, so you are now his "bud" and confidant. He will probably start expecting dates to be "dutch".

BTW, I just read your most recent post, and agree...I have done internet dating, and got burned out on the players and games. One guy checked he was a "non-smoker", well I don't date guys who smoke, so I go out with him, and he starts smoking on the date, in his car, I asked him about it...he said, "well, I really am trying to quit"....um....you either smoke, or you don't. That is pretty black and white to me.
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Unread 03-14-2012, 08:24 AM
 
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I think he is letting you know that you are in the "friend" category. Not serious "relationship" category. In his mind, he has put you as a friend, so you are now his "bud" and confidant. He will probably start expecting dates to be "dutch".
He's an idiot then. Friends don't meet at Match.com.
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Unread 03-14-2012, 08:26 AM
 
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Run! Run like the wind. This guy is trouble and will only make you miserable. (This is in response to your op.)
Yes, he did. I forgot to mention he started accusing me of being a spy. Came back from the bathroom and immediately ordered a new drink when the one he had before was not finished. Weird. Glad it's all over.
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Unread 03-14-2012, 09:51 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Yes, he did. I forgot to mention he started accusing me of being a spy. Came back from the bathroom and immediately ordered a new drink when the one he had before was not finished. Weird. Glad it's all over.
A paranoid date!! PS----30 days today since I've had a cigarette!
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