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Old 09-07-2007, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Get a nice shiny new one from the factory, nice wide eyed and smiling and make her fall in love with you.
When she calls you at work too many times get angry because work is important and your trying to get ahead and thats the most important thing.
when shes kissing and hugging on you in front of your family and friends, stare daggers at her because that makes you feel uncomfortable.
If she meets you at the door naked, notice that the room has'nt been picked up sence you left that morning and say something.
If she tells you she had a bad day, tell her how much worse your day was.
If she used your car the night before and its making a squeeking sound now, ask her if she hit a curb.
If shes not much of a cook and she asks how dinner was, say something derogatory and then qualify it by saying i'm sure you meant well.
When shes not in the mood to have sex one night tell her you know alot of women that would want you, she probobly will sleep with you....feel better?
After you've picked out the last 14 places to eat, drink, hangout and she wants to go to her moms house just say I really don't feel like it but its ok if you want to go.
Cheat on her.

When shes sleeping on the couch and your looking for a new hobby, think wow! I sure screwed up and married the wrong women.
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Old 09-07-2007, 05:21 PM
 
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Get a nice shiny new one from the factory, nice wide eyed and smiling and make her fall in love with you.
When she calls you at work too many times get angry because work is important and your trying to get ahead and thats the most important thing.
when shes kissing and hugging on you in front of your family and friends, stare daggers at her because that makes you feel uncomfortable.
If she meets you at the door naked, notice that the room has'nt been picked up sence you left that morning and say something.
If she tells you she had a bad day, tell her how much worse your day was.
If she used your car the night before and its making a squeeking sound now, ask her if she hit a curb.
If shes not much of a cook and she asks how dinner was, say something derogatory and then qualify it by saying i'm sure you meant well.
When shes not in the mood to have sex one night tell her you know alot of women that would want you, she probobly will sleep with you....feel better?
After you've picked out the last 14 places to eat, drink, hangout and she wants to go to her moms house just say I really don't feel like it but its ok if you want to go.
Cheat on her.

When shes sleeping on the couch and your looking for a new hobby, think wow! I sure screwed up and married the wrong women.
Oh my goodness, you know what? This reminds me of a book I'm reading, Stop The Insanity! by Susan Powter. I read it years ago but am re-reading it. She's a little on the nutty side (especially now) but a lot of the book talks about this very thing...being neglected in a marriage and turning into something that the husband despised and how ironic it was that his neglect urged that on. (To be fair, it probably didn't cause it entirely...we are all responsible for our actions...and she lays on the ex-hatred REALLY heavily in that book. But it is true that niggling around into someone's self-esteem issues and magnifying them really can go a long way toward fracturing that person. This is true, of course, for both husbands and wives.)
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Old 09-07-2007, 07:34 PM
 
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Sorry for all your pain.
You're much better off without the piece of crap.
You can learn from this and be a wiser person.
Don't worry, he'll get his one day.
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Old 09-07-2007, 07:42 PM
 
Location: Perth, Western Australia
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That sounds almost unreal. I wouldn't dream of acting that way.
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Old 09-07-2007, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Beautiful Kentucky
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Wow RCM58! That's a really good reminder for us all to care about our other half! It's so easy to take a person for granted and treat them badly... even in smaller ways than you have listed. My ex husband was a master of many things, including making me feel very small. Men and women should learn that we get so much more from life and our loved ones when we begin to love/give/share first.
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Old 09-08-2007, 04:36 AM
 
Location: NoVa
18,431 posts, read 34,345,842 times
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Originally Posted by Rcm58 View Post
Get a nice shiny new one from the factory, nice wide eyed and smiling and make her fall in love with you.
When she calls you at work too many times get angry because work is important and your trying to get ahead and thats the most important thing.
when shes kissing and hugging on you in front of your family and friends, stare daggers at her because that makes you feel uncomfortable.
If she meets you at the door naked, notice that the room has'nt been picked up sence you left that morning and say something.
If she tells you she had a bad day, tell her how much worse your day was.
If she used your car the night before and its making a squeeking sound now, ask her if she hit a curb.
If shes not much of a cook and she asks how dinner was, say something derogatory and then qualify it by saying i'm sure you meant well.
When shes not in the mood to have sex one night tell her you know alot of women that would want you, she probobly will sleep with you....feel better?
After you've picked out the last 14 places to eat, drink, hangout and she wants to go to her moms house just say I really don't feel like it but its ok if you want to go.
Cheat on her.

When shes sleeping on the couch and your looking for a new hobby, think wow! I sure screwed up and married the wrong women.
Wow, sounds like my life. I spent the last couple of months out on the couch, and now the kids I are living in a diffferent house. Out from under his rage and fury.
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