Bf "wow"ed a woman on TV (partner, experiences, looking)
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Originally Posted by Aganusn
I missed the part where he turned to his girl friend and said "She is much better looking than you. You should try to look like her..."
What? I'm not sure what that had to do with what I said. I'm simply stating he can look--that's fine, I don't give a [bleep]. It's going to happen, as I said. But hopefully he'll have enough respect to do it respectfully if his woman is with him; not acting like he's never seen a woman before, not acting like he's having an orgasm looking at her, not acting like his woman isn't right there beside him. You know. Common sense, human decency type of stuff.
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Originally Posted by Aganusn
Did you know that something as simple as looking into a woman's eyes can produce extra serotonin in the brain. This contributes to the happy and butterfly feeling of attraction, which leads to things like guys stuttering like idiots when talking to a woman they find attractive.
Now, how do you suggest a human stop a physiological reaction on command?
Oh I dunno....a few things that come to mind are....self control....class....respect for the woman beside him....common decency...
So bf and I were watching Bachelor show together when there's a sexy woman showed up in the show, bf eyes went pop out and make this adimiring " wow" sound like he has never seen a beautiful woman before. He has never looked/admired me that way.
I felt hurt and yelled at him. Am I wrong?
You both were in a way. If he's never said that to you, then yes, he shouldn't have said that out loud. It's a bit insensitive.
However, he was just in awe of someone else's beauty. Something in which we all can be at times, wheather we're with someone or not. You could have just let it go. I know it didn't feel good for you to hear that, but I wouldn't have made a fuss about it. It's not like he's going to go hunt her down the next day..But again, I can see where you might have been hurt..It sort of makes you feel like if he could have her, he would choose her over you. It's definately not a relationship builder. But not a breaker either..
You both were in a way. If he's never said that to you, then yes, he shouldn't have said that out loud. It's a bit insensitive.
However, he was just in awe of someone else's beauty. Something in which we all can be at times, wheather we're with someone or not. You could have just let it go. I know it didn't feel good for you to hear that, but I wouldn't have made a fuss about it. It's not like he's going to go hunt her down the next day..But again, I can see where you might have been hurt..It sort of makes you feel like if he could have her, he would choose her over you. It's definately not a relationship builder. But not a breaker either..
I tried to let it go when something like this happen before, but then it makes him feel like it's ok to do that since i didn't make a fuss. So he does that repeatly. He just can't learn, even after a few fights about the same issue, he still does it.
He never describe me as " hot", it's the word he use to describe other women.
He does complement me, but it's he's saying that just for the relationship sake. He says things like" you are beautiful, you look nice" etc. But never looked at me like the way he looks at other women. I'm just sad and confused.
He's also attractIed so someone who's wearing a lot makeup, fabulous hair do, and fabulous dresses. I can't do that cause of the nature of my job.
I know i overeated, but it's like the old issues got burried for too long and they all just exploded.
hurt? over that? smh....pretty juvenile if you ask me. I'd hate to see the OP's reaction over something "worth getting hurt over" if this non issue is considered "offensive"
What? I'm not sure what that had to do with what I said. I'm simply stating he can look--that's fine, I don't give a [bleep]. It's going to happen, as I said. But hopefully he'll have enough respect to do it respectfully if his woman is with him; not acting like he's never seen a woman before, not acting like he's having an orgasm looking at her, not acting like his woman isn't right there beside him. You know. Common sense, human decency type of stuff.
Oh I dunno....a few things that come to mind are....self control....class....respect for the woman beside him....common decency...
It won't let me rep you again...just wanted to say, it's so nice to see that there are men out there that think this (and can you move to VA?!). I know that men are gonna look...and I'll be looking too...but there's no reason to be disrespectful about it!
It won't let me rep you again...just wanted to say, it's so nice to see that there are men out there that think this (and can you move to VA?!). I know that men are gonna look...and I'll be looking too...but there's no reason to be disrespectful about it!
Wait, isn't Whyte Byrd a woman...?
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. Am I wrong?
