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Old 02-29-2012, 10:25 AM
 
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Im 22 and have never mated before, should i just start life with a couple different females for a while then find the good girl or just go after the good one and build the family

Does mated mean you do not have children, you have never had sex or you do not have a girlfriend and have not had a girlfriend in the past?

Also, what exactly is a "good girl"? I have never quite understood this phrase.
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Old 02-29-2012, 10:27 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Does mated mean you do not have children, you have never had sex or you do not have a girlfriend and have not had a girlfriend in the past?

Also, what exactly is a "good girl"? I have never quite understood this phrase.
Wondering if maybe English is not our OP's first language?

Hopefully he will come back and explain his situation a little more clearly
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Old 02-29-2012, 10:31 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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By starting life i mean having sex(even though thats not the start of life lol).

Well im in a relationship but im not to sure, the girl is a bit controlling. So im thinking if i should give up on her and just start over
If being controlled is troubling you, speak up. Talking to her about it first would be the best approach.

To say you're thinking about giving up on her, makes me think you've already tried and shes not listening.

Obviously, your current relationship doesn't include sex, so, my question, are the two of you having differences about being intimate?
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Old 02-29-2012, 10:32 AM
 
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He's 22 and has never had sex before, and hence no children.

Wondering whether to "play the field" and sleep with a couple different women, or to search for the woman he wants to spend his life with, and save sex for her.

Good girl is referring to wife material.

This is how I translated the situation!
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Old 02-29-2012, 10:47 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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He's 22 and has never had sex before, and hence no children.

Wondering whether to "play the field" and sleep with a couple different women, or to search for the woman he wants to spend his life with, and save sex for her.

Good girl is referring to wife material.

This is how I translated the situation!


Well thank you for the translation

I really just wasn't sure!

I mean really, how DO you "start life with a couple of different females"?? I thought he might be considering polygamy!

And what man really refers to WOMEN as FEMALES?? Sounds more like a farmer assessing his stock.
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Old 02-29-2012, 11:26 AM
 
Location: Hartford CT
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Take the advice from the movie 40 year old Virgin-"Run through a bunch of hoodrats first and have a bunch of bad sex with them" I am only kidding!!!
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Old 02-29-2012, 11:29 AM
 
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Forget looking for a woman. Men don't choose the woman the woman choose the man. As your young concentrate on making as much money as you can and the women will come. When you do start "mating" make sure you wear protection which of course you supply.. Never, ever, ever, ever use protection given to you by your partner..
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Old 02-29-2012, 02:27 PM
 
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He's 22 and has never had sex before, and hence no children.

Wondering whether to "play the field" and sleep with a couple different women, or to search for the woman he wants to spend his life with, and save sex for her.

Good girl is referring to wife material.

This is how I translated the situation!

He got it right, and most of the time men approach the women so how does the woman choose. I guess after the man approaches she figures out if hes anything she likes if thats what you mean.

Basically she doesnt want to have sex yet and i think its time to begin. At this point its marriage or nothing, but we need to get a couple things cleared up. She seems like perfect wife material but sometimes you never know.

She seems a bit insecure too, because she does things like compare me to another male to try and make me feel that way or hint to me that if i really want her ill stick around because shes 100% sure or something. Im starting to get really annoyed but i think/thought(not sure) creating life with one female lol i mean girl or woman(they are females right?) would be the ultimate life. Not everybody gets to experience that route(or lack of experience some would say)
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Old 02-29-2012, 04:01 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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He got it right, and most of the time men approach the women so how does the woman choose. I guess after the man approaches she figures out if hes anything she likes if thats what you mean.

Basically she doesnt want to have sex yet and i think its time to begin. At this point its marriage or nothing, but we need to get a couple things cleared up. She seems like perfect wife material but sometimes you never know.

She seems a bit insecure too, because she does things like compare me to another male to try and make me feel that way or hint to me that if i really want her ill stick around because shes 100% sure or something. Im starting to get really annoyed but i think/thought(not sure) creating life with one female lol i mean girl or woman(they are females right?) would be the ultimate life. Not everybody gets to experience that route(or lack of experience some would say)

dump her. go have sex with other women; seem like that's been on your mind and you just want confirmation it's 'ok to do that.' don't waste this girl's time.
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Old 02-29-2012, 04:20 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Sounds like you need experience in just being around women. Women at your age can be very difficult to figure out on what they want because they don't know what they want.

Date around and get some experience with women. Learn to be a man and what you desire. Women get better with age, you should try to also.
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