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Old 03-02-2012, 04:43 AM
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Originally Posted by 415_s2k View Post
My gut reaction is to say "yes," but, the more I think about it, the more that the answer is honestly "no."

I generally find girls who are on the thin/atheletic-to-curvaceous end of the spectrum attractive. However, I've known a few girls who became much more attractive to me after they put some weight on, and I've also known girls who have lost weight and in the process, became less attractive to me. A girl I know now, for instance: I've known her for about six months. She's very naturally shapely, with wide hips and thighs, and she's actually done a very admirable job of losing weight lately (she's in her early 20's, had a child, and is now single again and trying to get back in shape to date). She was never chunky or chubby at all, and looked very hot, but her thinner physique is actually less flattering to her natural figure.

It really does just depend on the woman and how she wears it.
Definitely. I hate the whole obsession with thin, thankfully it's reversing. Some people are of course naturally thinner than others, but the number of women counting calories is probably as bad as the number putting on the pounds. Give me a girl who just eats healthy, eats what she likes in moderation, exercises and has a healthy BMI. Nothing sexier than an appetite on a woman.

Old 03-02-2012, 05:06 AM
Location: NoVa
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absolutely not.
Old 03-02-2012, 05:08 AM
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Originally Posted by Pikantari View Post
absolutely not.
It may not be a dealbreaker, but it may be a bonebreaker!

Ok I'll stop now.
Old 03-02-2012, 05:56 AM
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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To the OP, weight is a deal breaker to me. Women who don't care about the way they look obviously aren't the kind of people I want to date.
Old 03-02-2012, 06:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Amber1964 View Post
Is weight a big deal breaker for you?
A person's health and fitness level is extremely important to me, so I would have to say....absolutely YES.
Old 03-02-2012, 06:27 AM
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Originally Posted by scarletneon View Post
Lol I'm sure all of you are perfectly ripped and in perfect shape, eh? Hahaha right.
Not far from it.
Old 03-02-2012, 07:18 AM
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Yes. Physical activity is a big part of my lifestyle plus I'm just not really attracted to overweight women. That is not so say I'd break up with someone for gaining weight. We all go thru phases where we gain weight due to a hectic schedule or stress. I just don't want to be with someone who doesn't care about their health or appearance.

I think there is a big double standard here because if I don't show interest in a woman because she's 5'3" 220 I'm a superficial pig but if a woman won't date me because I am 5'9 that is perfectly acceptable (and it is BTW, her choice).
Old 03-02-2012, 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted by ChessieMom View Post
Not far from it.
well, i'm not, but i've finally gotten to the point where i am fine with how i look, and if dudes have a problem with it, then screw them.
Old 03-02-2012, 07:23 AM
Location: Wherever women are
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Only becoz I can't carry her to the door if she has cancer.
Old 03-02-2012, 07:37 AM
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Not necessarily. Two things matter: 1) proportion: if a slightly chubby person is also tall, then chances are I would still consider him sexy. 2) attitude: whenever a person acts like he is way more attractive than he really is, it's a turn off
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