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View Poll Results: Men, would you date an "earthy" woman?
Sure, I think they are equally attractive as "non-earthy" women 29 50.00%
Only if it's real "toned down" - not all the attributes are present 9 15.52%
Not sure 5 8.62%
No thanks 15 25.86%
Voters: 58. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 03-07-2012, 10:06 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Don't tell me that! I'll be forced to revamp my entire unnecessary stereotypes list!
I know! I'll take one covered with political bumper stickers or a smart car. You chose.
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Old 03-07-2012, 11:30 PM
 
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I think this is fair since there's a poll on height restrictions, which are subjective - for some ladies, the deal-breaker is 6'2, at least 6', or greater than 5'10 (that's me).

OK, I'm bringing this up because of the TV series "Dharma and Greg," about a yuppified lawyer who marries the daughter of hippies, who remains hippy dippy herself. Again, I watched about 2 episodes, shaking my head. I was thinking "this just ain't the way it is in real life."

Define "earthy" however you want - to me, it means not a lot of make-up nor work on her hair to enhance her beauty, views which are more liberal, more prone to being "spiritual" than religious, has dietary restrictions (vegetarian or vegan) and other attributes which are nowadays considered "granola."

So, men, would you date an "earthy" woman?
Yes I would as long as she turns me on sexually and is a nice person.
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Old 03-07-2012, 11:32 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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I know! I'll take one covered with political bumper stickers or a smart car. You chose.
I just realized I completely overlooked Smart Cars and Priuses...Priui? Back to the drawing board!
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Old 03-07-2012, 11:43 PM
 
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Smart Cars
I wouldn't own one, but definitely ask for them when I've rented cars in Europe. With an automatic trans (rare over there), you can then concentrate on negotiating the narrow streets and absurd traffic.
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Old 03-07-2012, 11:45 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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I wouldn't mind owning a Smart Car if you could get them with a normal manual transmission. Well, I still wouldn't buy a car that expensive, but if someone were to give me one...
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Old 03-08-2012, 03:20 AM
 
Location: Homeless
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You learn from observing...from talking to friends and co-workers...from the workplace...and mostly from taking road trips through California growing up. You're interacting with those who will do anything to live at Lake Tahoe, Nevada City, Santa Cruz and Big Sur, and you think to yourself "Why can't I even remotely relate to these people?" And my friends are thinking the same thing. Most of it is for the chuckle value. None of it is hateful. But the speech inflection, the apparel and the overall presentation is different and makes for good discussion. To each their own. This stuff isn't even on TV...maybe as a cameo.

I've traveled this country back & for many times over. More then likey anyone else here. Unless there is a truck driver who runs non-stop. The majority of people here who have posted on this topic are stereotyping what they believe an earthly women is or should be. If you can't relate to these types of women then I would have to say it sounds like a personal problem. It's no fault of thiers they are people like you.
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Old 03-08-2012, 03:22 AM
 
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One last thing...what kind of car does she drive? It IS relevant.
Price of car, gas, and utility are some of the things people consider when buying. I'm not sure how that's broken into mainstream and earthy.

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She doesn't need to drive anywhere because of her lack of a job, due to habitual marijuana consumption. She lives in a crappy place like San Francisco or Portland.
Ah, so having a job renders a person non-earthy, then?

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That which would appeal to a clean cut collegiate guy who majors in business or engineering, and the grown-up version thereof, who would actually drive an American car, live in the suburbs, eat in a chain restaurant, identify with a religion....and the female equivalent thereof, with the exception of the choice of majors. Something like that +/-.
Ok, a couple of things. Mainstream is not so much clean cut these days. You can put this guy, about as mainstream as it gets, in a suit and keep his hair short, but he's not someone I would describe as clean cut. I would describe him as someone who probably eats at chain restaurants.



Mainstream America is not entirely college bound, since only 28% of the nation hold college degrees, let alone bound for engineering. I know a lot of engineers and they don't remind me of the people you describe. I think business might be closer. As far as the suburbs go, I didn't know you were a home owner.

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Most of the current definitions spell "annoying whacko" to me. The only one I'd have respect for is a simple woman living on a farm, doing what she's supposed to do there, and looking like she's supposed to look there.
You actually have some of the criteria listed by the OP as earthy. You believe in astrology, a strong proponent of, correct? I consider myself earthy, but don't buy into that stuff.
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Old 03-08-2012, 03:32 AM
 
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I think some of the men here watch WAY too much TV..
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You learn from observing...from talking to friends and co-workers...from the workplace...and mostly from taking road trips through California growing up. You're interacting with those who will do anything to live at Lake Tahoe, Nevada City, Santa Cruz and Big Sur, and you think to yourself "Why can't I even remotely relate to these people?" And my friends are thinking the same thing. Most of it is for the chuckle value. None of it is hateful. But the speech inflection, the apparel and the overall presentation is different and makes for good discussion. To each their own. This stuff isn't even on TV...maybe as a cameo.
Baloney. You reference TV continually. The media has clearly impacted your worldview in a striking way. You can't relate to these people, and likely a host of other groups, because you are a closed-minded, judgmental man who superimposes stereotypes onto strangers.

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Luckily there's a hand few that are.
A handful you will never have the opportunity to subjugate. Even the weak willed have standards.

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Just listen to the intown "earthy" people criticize the suburbanites and how proud they are that they don't even know where the suburbs are, nor have ever set foot there.
This is just silly. You're grasping at straws again. There are environmentalists who take issue with urban sprawl, which is understandable. But, you sitting or traveling around listening to this stuff with any regularity to give the observation credence? How is it possible with your TV and chain restaurant schedule?
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Old 03-08-2012, 03:44 AM
 
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With all the above said I just asked my husband if he considers us as earthy and he said NO, even tho he's an avid hiker, enjoys camping, and knows the woods in our area like the back of his hand; is not religious and is practically a socialist and poo poo's mainstream America. Go figure.
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Old 03-08-2012, 04:14 AM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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I'm a vegetarian chick that's as far from "earthy" as earthy gets.
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