Do you think this is because my brain is slightly more 'female' than the average male's? (lesbian, women)

[Trimac20]

I don't even know if it's true...I took a few internet tests (save the jibes till later peeps , yes I KNOW they are internet tests, but I took a few, and they match up with my own perception of my self. In one test I scored 50 male and 50 female in terms of how 'male' and 'female' my brain was.

Anyway I'm wondering if this explains some things. Like how I posted in another thread how I occasionally like to be dominated, be pampered and 'taken care of.' Not that I don't like to do that to my woman now and then, but how I like it a bit balanced?

Also, I sort of eroticize myself more than the average man, I think. Like I like people to think of me as 'sexy', while to some guys they find this icky. I know female attraction isn't so visual, so I wonder if my occasional bi-curiosity is related to a need to be a sex object? Also an attraction to strong-willed women with a high sex drive who are more visually aroused than the average female. Perhaps also an attraction to more sensual things (lesbian porn ), getting massaged...is this unusual for most men?

I'm not sure if I'm particularly emotional or sensitive, but I do feel I can be empathetic. I'll leave stereotypes out of this (typical 'male' and 'female' interests) and I hope this won't turn into a discussion about stereotypes. It's not also a discussion on my femme/masculine you see yourself, but about how people's can have different amount of male and female tendencies and how that affects their sense of their own sexuality.

[stargazzer]

OP says.... how people's can have different amount of male and female tendencies and how that affects their sense of their own sexuality


Stargazzer says: Copied above to follow the OP... It appears as though you are entirely introverted with respects to relationship understandings... It seems the path toward a future imagined relationship in so far as the intimate expression of sex is concerned is denied, and wholly based on what you want and think....will gratify yourself.

Now.... above shows the self centeredness which easily suggests not being suitably stable for a relationship. The fixation on individual gratification excluding a relationship (you recognize this is a very masculine tendency , a tendency out of insecure notions of failure, thus consolation in dramatized fantasy. Acceptence is important to understand

In short....you are trying to take control over something which you feel heavily dictates fulfillment of which you sadly have....no control.. So the masculine control ego comes and turns the whole thing around and says...I have control, I shall choose what I like and turns the whole thing into an imagined candy store where preferred selection is the focus and not the reality...A fantasy for control over the social which one cannot control and is frustrated