Is it possible for my man to just give me a great massage without wanting something more? (wife, college)

[Prince_Frog]

Originally Posted by tarragon

Why do men have to be like that?! Why can't they just learn to be able to give a good massage, back scratch or just snuggle without it always leading to something else? Why?

Because if a man touch the shapely curves of a woman it naturally turns them on.

Agan, go professional or learn to expect us to want to do stuff to you.

[1208]

...came here to brag is what you did

[Mikala43]

Originally Posted by tarragon

Why do men have to be like that?! Why can't they just learn to be able to give a good massage, back scratch or just snuggle without it always leading to something else? Why?

Sorry, I like my men to want me. Sure, they should give consideration when the situation arises.... but, I should give consideration when the situation ARISES too.

Nothing wrong with your man wanting you.

[Nite Ryder]

Originally Posted by tarragon

Why do men have to be like that?! Why can't they just learn to be able to give a good massage, back scratch or just snuggle without it always leading to something else? Why?

Why do women demand a massage? Why can't they just learn it is not a man's job to scratch your back or give you a massage? Next thing you know they will be expecting you to do the house work.

My post makes about as much sense as yours, doesn't it? Why do you think it is a man's job to give you a massage? If I were the OP's husband and knew how she felt, I wouldn't bother her any more after a massage, because there would be none. She could buy her massage down town, but that works both ways, doesn't it? He could go down town also.

[Prettygyrl777]

Not all men will get aroused when giving massages. If it's done professionally (clearly with someone you don't know), then there's little chance of that happening. Male gynecologists see naked women on a daily basis- they're not standing around getting aroused because of it. LOL. Of course you already have an initmate connection with your partner, so he's more likely to get aroused when massaging you. If you don't want it to head in that direction each time you want a massage, then consider going professional next time.

[Rakin]

Assuming he's straight and under 75, probably not.

It's called "A stroke & a poke"

[gomexico]

"Is it possible for my man to just give me a great massage without wanting something more?"

No.

[lovesthebass]

Your man? I don't know, apparently not.

I could though. A little self control is all that's needed. If I knew you were tired, I wouldn't push it.

[cwamjn]

Do you wear a cubs shirt while he does it? If not, start. It would probably be pretty hard to not be anything but sick if you had to look at that sad sick logo for any amount of time.

[mn311601]

Are women honestly complaining about the fact that their SO finds them attractive enough to become aroused every time they touch their bodies? Wow, can't win with anything, can you? Give it some time, they'll be complaining that their SO doesn't want to touch them at all anymore.