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Well, I know what I think of guys who don't sleep around - KEEPER! I'd be happy to meet a guy who hasn't been with a ton of women and who's selective like I am. The guy I'm talking to now knows I'm not going to just hop in bed with him and he's fine with it. He said he's looking for a serious relationship, not casual sex, so it's a great way to weed out guys. I didn't care so much in my early 20s because I wasn't looking to get married then, but my priorities are different now.
Thanks again, everyone!
This is not true. Most girls prefer guys who sleep around because they have experience with women. Why do you think girls don't like virgin guys?
OP. I don't think you have anything to worry about. I personally like to be honest and open with my partner about our sexual history. I've been in the same position and I didn't mention how long it had been but I did say how many partners I'd had and when me and my last bf broke up...anyone who can do basic addition could figure out it'd been a long time for me. It wasn't a big deal.
This is not true. Most girls prefer guys who sleep around because they have experience with women. Why do you think girls don't like virgin guys?
There's a difference between not sleeping around and being a virgin. I probably wouldn't date a virgin because every virgin I know plans on not having premarital sex, which is something I'm not willing to do.
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You can protect yourself with condoms, btw
Yeah, but you can't protect yourself from ALL STDs with condoms (viruses are on the skin), especially if they break.
Well, I know what I think of guys who don't sleep around - KEEPER! I'd be happy to meet a guy who hasn't been with a ton of women and who's selective like I am. The guy I'm talking to now knows I'm not going to just hop in bed with him and he's fine with it. He said he's looking for a serious relationship, not casual sex, so it's a great way to weed out guys. I didn't care so much in my early 20s because I wasn't looking to get married then, but my priorities are different now.
Thanks again, everyone!
You are describing a "Nice Guy". If there was a man that hadn't been with a woman in 4 years it would send up flags, as it says you are socially unskilled or a possibly something else, like you just got out of prison. As a woman you can probably get away with it easier than a man. You may even have a sexual re-awakening when you go active again
You are describing a "Nice Guy". If there was a man that hadn't been with a woman in 4 years it would send up flags, as it says you are socially unskilled or a possibly something else, like you just got out of prison. As a woman you can probably get away with it easier than a man. You may even have a sexual re-awakening when you go active again
You people and your flags.
Socially unskilled, choosing to save yourself for someone special, not gotten the chance or what have you. Why do trivial things like lack of sexual experience send up flags? Sex is learned. Are people so impatient that they'd rather shrug off someone for their lack of "rocking their world" the first time they have sex, even though the person may be otherwise a fantastic partner? Hell, with some work, that person may end up being the best you've ever had.
Socially unskilled being a flag irks me greatly. Some people just aren't the greatest at being sociable. Does that make them any less of a good person? Should they be destined to spend life alone?
Criminal record, lack of employment, history of physical abuse, drug/alcohol abuse, etc. Those are things that should be sending up "flags". Things that can cause real problems.
Socially unskilled, choosing to save yourself for someone special, not gotten the chance or what have you. Why do trivial things like lack of sexual experience send up flags? Sex is learned. Are people so impatient that they'd rather shrug off someone for their lack of "rocking their world" the first time they have sex, even though the person may be otherwise a fantastic partner? Hell, with some work, that person may end up being the best you've ever had.
Socially unskilled being a flag irks me greatly. Some people just aren't the greatest at being sociable. Does that make them any less of a good person? Should they be destined to spend life alone?
Criminal record, lack of employment, history of physical abuse, drug/alcohol abuse, etc. Those are things that should be sending up "flags". Things that can cause real problems.
Yeah, the red flag saying is over done, I'll say "blue flag" next time.
I can only speak for myself: I prefer to be a sexual being and 4 years would be too long to do with out. As far as having a relationship with someone who is a poor lover, I have done it before and I will never do it again. I'm not saying I would only give a woman one shot but months with no sign of improvement would spell the end.
Socially unskilled, choosing to save yourself for someone special, not gotten the chance or what have you. Why do trivial things like lack of sexual experience send up flags? Sex is learned. Are people so impatient that they'd rather shrug off someone for their lack of "rocking their world" the first time they have sex, even though the person may be otherwise a fantastic partner? Hell, with some work, that person may end up being the best you've ever had.
Socially unskilled being a flag irks me greatly. Some people just aren't the greatest at being sociable. Does that make them any less of a good person? Should they be destined to spend life alone?
Criminal record, lack of employment, history of physical abuse, drug/alcohol abuse, etc. Those are things that should be sending up "flags". Things that can cause real problems.
You've got to understand, there's a deep seething hatred people have for the socially awkward. A hatred that is greater then what they have for murderers, rapists and drug dealers. I have no idea why but it's like it hasn't change since grade school.
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You would be all the more precious to him. 
