As a man do you think the male sex drive is a curse (college, humans)
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The male sex drive is a curse when married. The wife will not want sex or allow you to masturbate.
I still get plenty 4-5 times a week even after 16 years of marriage, plus I rub one out at least twice a day. I love my drive its the only thing I'm good at.
as a man I think our sex drive is our own curse. the things we do for sex are things women would never do, like buy lots of porn or pay for it. Women can make tons of money off of mens horniness but no man can make the same claim. men waste tons of money on sex and have even ruined their careers and marriages over it. Elliot Spitzer being an example. I know of no woman that would risk her neck like that.
Its also a curse if your like me and women just don't find you attractive. All it is a burden to bear because it doesn't do me any good whatsoever. I wish there were drugs on the market that could get rid of my sex drive but I know they will never exist because the male sex drive is a lucrative market.
Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing. Men have no say or control in this matter. Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us. I admit, I envy their ability to control themselves.
Both can have equal sex drives. It is just way too easier for women to get sex. Men have to work for it.
Remember, men still get paid more then women even today.
There are plenty of Drugs that will can rid of your sex drive and pretty much eliminate it.
Why do your posts about this always sound so negative towards women?
Because that’s how you want to see it. I am just illustrating a simple fact and you decided to see it with negativity. Have a guy approach women and straight out ask them to go to his place hinting them he is expecting sex. Have a woman approach men and do the same. Who will have a higher possibility of going home with a willing partner to have sex? See what I mean.
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Honestly - if anything - you are making it seem like all men are horny guys that will do just about anyone and women have some taste and self - respect. Except that you try to color it in a bad way for the women - like they are evil for not wanting to have random sex with strangers as often as men.
Interpret things whoever you want. Women are not evil for not wanting sex or for having an easier time having sex whenever they want to. That’s just how things are, so what? The world can keep spinning.
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Both can have equal sex drives. It is just way too easier for women to get sex. Men have to work for it.
And this is not a bad thing really. It’s just something women should feel lucky about and be happy.
If her husband doesn’t want sex, he just doesn’t want it regardless of the effort she might consider doing. Like in the other thread about the massage with no sex, if a woman doesn’t want sex, then, SHE DOESN’T WANT SEX, period. And women say their decision should be respected and the man should understand she doesn’t want sex, right? Well, apply the same the other way around.
EXACTLY. But what you STATED was that when women want sex, it's easy for them to get sex. And I'm saying it's not always the case, as you just demonstrated. If she respects that her husband isn't in the mood, has a medical condition that makes it difficult or whatever the case may be...it is NOT EASY for her to have sex. But you like to throw those blanket statements around. In case you forgot what you said, here it is below:
For you, as a woman, can’t see your sex drive being a challenge, a curse, or whatever. Think about it, if you want sex today, you can pretty much be sure you will have it without any effort at all.
EXACTLY. But what you STATED was that when women want sex, it's easy for them to get sex. And I'm saying it's not always the case, as you just demonstrated
Sure, it’s not always the case as their might be a day where the husband simply doesn’t want sex. I can assure you that there is a big difference with the times a husband doesn’t want sex vs all the times a wife rejects her husband’s desires to have sex. This is not a bad thing.
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If she respects that her husband isn't in the mood, has a medical condition that makes it difficult or whatever the case may be...it is NOT EASY for her to have sex
Yes, it won’t be easy for her that single occasion that the husband surprisingly doesn’t want to have sex. Now, there are exceptions of course. How often do we hear men complain that the wife wants sex? “Oh man, here comes my wife again. She wants to have sex *groan*” it even sounds comical. Even here in the forum, how many threads do you see of men complaining because the wife or girlfriend wants sex? How many do we see from women complaining that their husband/boyfriend/lover/etc. wants sex? See what I mean.
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But you like to throw those blanket statements around. In case you forgot what you said, here it is below:
For you, as a woman, can’t see your sex drive being a challenge, a curse, or whatever. Think about it, if you want sex today, you can pretty much be sure you will have it without any effort at all.
That’s right. If a woman wants to have sex, she will have sex. No effort needed really. Have a woman approach a 10 young guys in a bar or party and straight out hint them about going to her place and get some action. Out of the 10 guys, how many do you think will reject her? Have a man approach 10 women and tell me how many will happily accept and go to his place to have sex? See what I mean. It’s easier for women. I repeat, this is not a bad thing. Hey, more power to women.
Sure, it’s not always the case as their might be a day where the husband simply doesn’t want sex. I can assure you that there is a big difference with the times a husband doesn’t want sex vs all the times a wife rejects her husband’s desires to have sex.
How can you possibly make that assumption? You aren't even married! And unless you are speaking of your particular situation - you cannot possibly know what goes on inside the bedrooms of other people's lives. Unless you are somehow omniscient and omnipresent - there is no way you could know who rejects who, how often, and why. I can't believe that you would even assert something like that.
Sure, it’s not always the case as their might be a day where the husband simply doesn’t want sex. I can assure you that there is a big difference with the times a husband doesn’t want sex vs all the times a wife rejects her husband’s desires to have sex.
Oh I see...so in your opinion, when men don't want sex it's only for a day but when women don't want sex it's chronic. Because men don't suffer from depression, chronic medical conditions that preclude them from having sex, or just plain don't have a drive. In your opinion, that's rare. From talking to my friends, it's not all that rare and in fact, the women complain that their husbands are the ones "too tired" or "not in the mood".
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Yes, it won’t be easy for her that single occasion that the husband surprisingly doesn’t want to have sex. Now, there are exceptions of course. How often do we hear men complain that the wife wants sex? “Oh man, here comes my wife again. She wants to have sex *groan*” it even sounds comical. Even here in the forum, how many threads do you see of men complaining because the wife or girlfriend wants sex? How many do we see from women complaining that their husband/boyfriend/lover/etc. wants sex? See what I mean.
No, I don't see what you mean. You are going to have to dig up those threads where it says "my husband wants sex all the time and I don't" because I honestly can't recall any threads of that nature. (The massage thread doesn't count, BTW. She isn't complaining that he always wants sex, she's complaining that he can't just do something nice for her without expecting sex.)
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That’s right. If a woman wants to have sex, she will have sex. No effort needed really. Have a woman approach a 10 men in a bar or party and straight out hint them about going to her place and get some action. Out of the 10 men, how many do you think will reject her? Have a man approach 10 women and tell me how many will happily accept and go to his place to have sex? See what I mean. It’s easier for women. I repeat, this is not a bad thing. Hey, more power to women.
So again, we are limiting this to single women. If a married woman wants to have sex and her partner has no drive, no libido, medical issues...what-have-you, she is NOT having sex.
As other female posters have pointed out, when single they won't just have sex with some random man just because he said "pretty please". Women have to protect themselves...why would they go to his place if they didn't know him well? That is just asking for trouble. Are you seriously going to play that card? Poor men....they can't get some tail because a woman feels like she needs to be cautious when choosing her bedmates. You get no pity from me.
This "women can get sex easier than men" argument is really irrelevant since women don't want sex, especially not with random ugly, socially inept or disease ridden guys at a bar/party.
There, I fixed it for ya. Obviously some guys are having radom hookups because it does happen. Women DO want sex...just not with certain men. Just like men don't want sex with certain women.
Women want sex just as much as men; it is just the word sex literally means two different things to men and women. To men, it means the physical act of the sex - intercourse to be exact; to women it is the experience, from flirting, falling in love, having sex, ... the whole nine yard.
Do they want the raw sex or intercourse? Sure they do but the other stuff are just as important and without the other stuff, it's hard for me to get into the act.
Are you a male or female making this statement? Because as a woman, I can tell you women DO NOT want it as much as men. My gynecologist agrees as she treats women everyday.
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