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Old 03-12-2012, 12:38 PM
 
Location: Vancouver, BC
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I don't want to have sex until marriage but I'm worried that women won't date me if we don't have sex.

I'm doing this for personal rather than religious reasons.

I've casually hooked-up (no sex) with girls in the past and I've never felt fulfilled being intimate with people I don't really like. So I've decided to remain a virgin until marriage.
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Old 03-12-2012, 12:39 PM
 
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Absolutely not.

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I've casually hooked-up (no sex) with girls in the past and I've never felt fulfilled being intimate with people I don't really like. So I've decided to remain a virgin until marriage.
Your post makes little sense.

1. You won't have sex until marriage because you will not like anyone until after you marry them?

2. Why are you hooking up with people you don't like?
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Old 03-12-2012, 12:40 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Absolutely not.
^^^
My answer, exactly.

What a bad idea.
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Old 03-12-2012, 12:40 PM
 
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HELL-to-the-NO
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Old 03-12-2012, 12:43 PM
 
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I understand if you choose to wait as I'm not into casual sex either (it sure would take me a while to make me want to jump into bed with a bf). What I will not do is wait till marriage. I believe intimacy and sexual compatibility is a main component within a relationship. If I can't connect physically to the man of my dreams, then it would feel like I'm being neglected.
Hate to bring the bad news but nope, I will not date a ''Waiting till marriage'' man.
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Old 03-12-2012, 12:44 PM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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No. I would not date, no less marry a virgin. I'd rather be with a guy that knows what he's doing sexually.

But I'm sure there are woman who would. Namely another virgin whose waiting?
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Old 03-12-2012, 12:47 PM
 
Location: San Bernardino County (previously L.A.)
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Oh I wish there were a lot more men like you who were willing to wait for that special person who will be their wife before having sex. Due to my religion, I don't do that either. I also don't believe in living together before marriage. People can call me old-fashioned all they want. I have my standards & I don't care if it's 1975 or 2075, there's certain things I won't do or prefer not do to. So, I sure wouldn't mind dating someone like you at all. There's a lot more to life than sex. For all those men (& women) who say they can't go without it for a week or even a couple of days, I say buck up & have a lot more will power & inner strength.
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Old 03-12-2012, 12:48 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I understand if you choose to wait as I'm not into casual sex either (it sure would take me a while to make me want to jump into bed with a bf). What I will not do is wait till marriage. I believe intimacy and sexual compatibility is a main component within a relationship. If I can't connect physically to the man of my dreams, then it would feel like I'm being neglected.
Hate to bring the bad news but nope, I will not date a ''Waiting till marriage'' man.
^^^This, exactly.
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Old 03-12-2012, 12:49 PM
 
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Again, I invite all men who are currently in a serious relationship, but are remaining a virgin until marriage, to weigh in here.





*crickets*
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Old 03-12-2012, 12:51 PM
 
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Again, I invite all men who are currently in a serious relationship, but are remaining a virgin until marriage, to weigh in here.

*crickets*
Heck, I don't know a woman/man who was virgin after 21. Men/women who are virgins by choice until marriage is just not that common at all.
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