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Male or female. If you are uncomfortable then don't do it. If he can't wait then you're better off without him.
Best advice is always work with your timetable and not his. If it doesn't work out then no hard feelings. You didn't have sex because he wanted it but because you wanted it. No harm, no one is being used. Or least it's mutual and that's ok!
Okay. I'm 34, newly single. Been with two guys in the last 16 years. Never marriet yet. Went out on a date with this really nice guy and he's called and texted me since and wants to take me to Frightmares at the amusement park when it comes. How do you know if a guy wants a relationship or sex? That night he complimented me a lot. He said I was cute, liked my hair and my outfit and my shoes and my eyes. I asked him and he said he wants to get to know me, but who knows. Thanks for your response.
id say in most cases, at the beginning, we all want sex. thats one reason we are attracted to you!
to find out if he only wants sex, wait a while b4 hopping into bed. guys that only want sex will move on if it seems its taking to long.
Its not hard to tell.
1. Is he actually listening while you talk?
2. Did he do something less than selfish for you?
3. Did he go shopping all day with you and not utter a single complaint?
If you answer yes to any of these three beware he is a horn dog with only one thought in his head. That or he is gay.
I have recently connected with an old flame. He and I have been talking on and off for the past year. He was away at war, married with two boys.
My question is this. He just told me he is interested in seeing me/hooking up so to speak but quote "not at the expense of the whole rodeo" life as his boys and him know it??? Can you converse with me here on this situation?
Oh wow.....are you married or in a relationship? I'd be careful.....I guess there's nothing wrong with talking to an old friend but the fact is that he is not an old "friend" persay but an old love interest right? You'd have to make that decision but me personally.....depending on the situation, if we were friends for a long time and then had a short involvment I probably would go but I would make sure he understood that we were ONLY friends meeting up to catch up. If you are in a serious relationship i'd make sure to tell your SO just to avoid drama. Good Luck!
To the OP: Third date, no sex, I exit stage left. Sorry if that makes me a jerk... but who has the time? If the Target were, say, low- to mid-twenties, why not? Mid-thirties, staring at forty? Better things to do, thank you.
Just remember that contrary to Hollywood's mantra there are lots of girls out there. Each one of whom can-- by definition!-- offer "sex." Wait too long, place too many conditions on your favors, and you will find yourself alone. Pure, chaste, unviolated, but alone. And you are not getting any younger.
Okay. I'm 34, newly single. Been with two guys in the last 16 years. Never marriet yet. Went out on a date with this really nice guy and he's called and texted me since and wants to take me to Frightmares at the amusement park when it comes. How do you know if a guy wants a relationship or sex? That night he complimented me a lot. He said I was cute, liked my hair and my outfit and my shoes and my eyes. I asked him and he said he wants to get to know me, but who knows. Thanks for your response.
As long as we are playing intuitive guessing games, consider the focus of his compliments. The fact that they are all observations of your physical attributes and how attractive you look, suggests an underlying sexual motive. I don't see anything in his compliments regarding your conversational skills, intelligence, humor, etc.
Now for the practical approach. If YOU want to have sex with him, do it when he first picks you up for the date. If he still wants to go out after, he wants a relationship............or you were so good he wants a second session.
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