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Old 03-13-2012, 08:43 PM
 
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It rarely happens. What I find is that some gay guys are overly nice to me - very cooperative at work, provide excellent customer service in stores, or (mistakenly) put some extra food item in my bag at a fast food place....and then shrug it off ("oh, don't worry about it") when I point it out to them.

Obvious lesbians do NOT like me, especially when I'm wearing a suit. Wouldn't be aware how a feminine lesbian reacts to me, since I usually don't know they're a lesbian.
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Old 03-13-2012, 08:46 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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It rarely happens. What I find is that some gay guys are overly nice to me - very cooperative at work, provide excellent customer service in stores, or (mistakenly) put some extra food item in my bag at a fast food place....and then shrug it off ("oh, don't worry about it") when I point it out to them.

Obvious lesbians do NOT like me, especially when I'm wearing a suit. Wouldn't be aware how a feminine lesbian reacts to me, since I usually don't know they're a lesbian.
What do lesbians have to do with this?
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Old 03-13-2012, 08:50 PM
 
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What do lesbians have to do with this?
One of my first assignments in freshman college English was to do a compare/contrast paper. I compared San Francisco to San Diego, all via stereotypes, and my prof told me I was FULL OF IT...so I had to re-do the paper. I then compared two vehicles that interested me. He gave me an "A."

I guess I was looking for that "extra scoop of ice cream."
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Old 03-13-2012, 08:52 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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One of my first assignments in freshman college English was to do a compare/contrast paper. I compared San Francisco to San Diego, all via stereotypes, and my prof told me I was FULL OF IT...so I had to re-do the paper. I then compared two vehicles that interested me. He gave me an "A."

I guess I was looking for that "extra scoop of ice cream."
So confused... Not sure why a lesbian would hit on you... Then again - I had a guy stick his hand down my pants (the back, not the front) while we were dancing at a gay bar. I was so confused... I have a feeling he wasn't gay. I didn't like that at all.
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Old 03-13-2012, 08:56 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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So confused... Not sure why a lesbian would hit on you... Then again - I had a guy stick his hand down my pants (the back, not the front) while we were dancing at a gay bar. I was so confused... I have a feeling he wasn't gay. I didn't like that at all.
Im not being an arse..but this tickles me. A GUY stuck his hand down your pants while you were dancing at a GAY bar, and you dont think he was gay? LOL

Unless you meant that to be funny..I dunno..its getting late.
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Old 03-13-2012, 08:56 PM
 
Location: Wyoming
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It hasn't happened to me since I was a teen, but my wife was "hit on" a few years ago while we were having a drink at the bar in a small town. She just said, "no thank you", but I've been kidding her about it ever since. It seemed bizarre. I mean, we were sitting together minding our own business....
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Old 03-13-2012, 08:59 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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It hasn't happened to me since I was a teen, but my wife was "hit on" a few years ago while we were having a drink at the bar in a small town. She just said, "no thank you", but I've been kidding her about it ever since. It seemed bizarre. I mean, we were sitting together minding our own business....

Man, the last time that happened to me I ended up @ this chic's house...
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Old 03-13-2012, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Im not being an arse..but this tickles me. A GUY stuck his hand down your pants while you were dancing at a GAY bar, and you dont think he was gay? LOL

Unless you meant that to be funny..I dunno..its getting late.
Well, seeing as how I'm a woman - and we were dancing, and he stuck his hand on my butt - yes, I'm thinking he was not gay. I am quite obviously a woman.
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Old 03-13-2012, 09:01 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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Well, seeing as how I'm a woman - and we were dancing, and he stuck his hand on my butt - yes, I'm thinking he was not gay. I am quite obviously a woman.
Ohh well its quite obvious then that I didnt know you were a woman. My bad..I assumed you were a guy.
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Old 03-13-2012, 09:04 PM
 
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My bad..I assumed you were a guy.

That's what she said
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