Poll: How long do women want to have sex for? In minutes. (love, kids)
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You have to fit it in to what ever allotment of time you have available. For instance the time it takes for a five year old to eat animal crackers and apple juice while watching a cartoon. Fore play included.
I'm a 20-min chick. After 20 mins of pure thrusting, you better wrap it up.
I start to get tired, sore and numb after that point. Though with breaks 30-40 mins would suffice.
Course 5 min quickies should also not be discounted!
Never have I wanted to do hours and hours. I'd prefer to be able to sit and walk normally the next day!
This is the reality of sex with the majority of woman I have been in a relationship with. Longer if you include oral and other things that can be considered love making. On the other hand 20 minutes of pure thrusting in one position would seem like an hour.
An old girlfriend used to complain about a former boyfriend who would pound on her all all night like it was some endurance excercise. The key word was "Complain". She said it got to the point where she was turned off to having sex with him.
20 minutes of high quality trumps hours of mediocrity every single time
You're the kind of guy who, when he's kissing her, is wondering whether he's "kissing right or not", aren't you?
Here you go with all the "time for sex" advice you'll ever need:
Look into her eyes. Look not just at, but INTO her eyes. Lose yourself in there for a while, so time goes away.
After you regain your senses some, look at her cheek.... her skin, her lips.
KISS those lips. Don't kiss them "this way", don't kiss them "the way you've been told"...
Just KISS them, because they taste magnificent, because you want to be with HER, because you want to drink her up, bathe in her presence, swim in the depths of her scent and the touch of her hand and skin.
Kiss them the way you FEEL.
Do everything else exactly the way I described above, from the touch of her hand to the way you run your tongue up and down her body. Lose yourself inside her when you enter her, lose yourself in her eyes as you move and thrust, as you slowly allow waves to cross your body --
And you will always have the "right" number of minutes.
And one more thing, Junior: "foreplay" and "sex" aren't two different things. They're just NOT. Get it right. It's ALL -- every single caress, touch, look, smile, laugh, ALL of it -- about being TOGETHER.
It's not about how long it's about the moment. How long it takes is not important it's that connection between the two of you. The smell the taste, the touch.
Too many people worry about technique and what's "right" when the fact is that whatever is right for the two of you is what's RIGHT -- period.
This time you're in a rush, whether of passion or time constraints; next time you've got all night and ten different locations.
If HE worries about his own comfort and HER pleasure...
And SHE worries about her own comfort and HIS pleasure...
Then that should be IT, right? Sex is supposed to be about FUN, and about solidifying and sharing in the relationship at hand, whether casual or more permanent.
When a man is taking too much time in the "buffet line", at some point it is appropriate to move on to some other activity to finish out the "meal".
I really hate guests who overstay their welcome, like those people who never leave a party, when the party is done. Really, when you start looking at the clock and wondering when a "guest" will just leave, so you can go to bed. That means the party is over.
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