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Old 03-20-2012, 02:02 PM
 
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I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months now, and she just keeps talking about other guys. It's only been recently. She is letting them talk dirty to her, and treat her like she is their girlfriend. She gets mad at me for getting mad. She says "they are good friends". HELP??? please.. I love her, but I done now. This is just too much. I need to know why she is doing this.. She even let some guy cook her dinner! I need help guys... Actually, girls... Thank you
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Old 03-20-2012, 02:08 PM
 
Location: Florida
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What did the barber say? "NEXT!"
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Old 03-20-2012, 02:08 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months now, and she just keeps talking about other guys. It's only been recently. She is letting them talk dirty to her, and treat her like she is their girlfriend. She gets mad at me for getting mad. She says "they are good friends". HELP??? please.. I love her, but I done now. This is just too much. I need to know why she is doing this.. She even let some guy cook her dinner! I need help guys... Actually, girls... Thank you

That's the part I don't like. If the situation were reversed, I would've been out the door already. She obviously has no respect for you. She also sounds like unnecessary drama to even be telling you something like this
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Old 03-20-2012, 02:08 PM
 
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You sound like you're 14, either break up with her or stay. Did you guys think you were going to get married and be together forever or something?
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Old 03-20-2012, 02:12 PM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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That is a lack of general respect for you. I'd give her an ultimatum and stick to it. If she does not stop, you're done. Then LEAVE! She's a suck ass girlfriend!
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Old 03-20-2012, 02:14 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months now, and she just keeps talking about other guys. It's only been recently. She is letting them talk dirty to her, and treat her like she is their girlfriend. She gets mad at me for getting mad. She says "they are good friends". HELP??? please.. I love her, but I done now. This is just too much. I need to know why she is doing this.. She even let some guy cook her dinner! I need help guys... Actually, girls... Thank you

Her behavior sounds intolerable, so why do you tolerate it?

Life lesson #3 - we teach people how to treat us
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Old 03-20-2012, 02:16 PM
 
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It seems like she is a attention seeker. She has no regard for how you feel or deserve to be treated.

People tell you how they are so take that and run for the hills because you will only stress yourself trying to change her.
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Old 03-20-2012, 02:19 PM
 
Location: southern california
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she is playing u. your discomfort brings her pleasure. dump her now.
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Old 03-20-2012, 03:38 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months now, and she just keeps talking about other guys. It's only been recently. She is letting them talk dirty to her, and treat her like she is their girlfriend. She gets mad at me for getting mad. She says "they are good friends". HELP??? please.. I love her, but I done now. This is just too much. I need to know why she is doing this.. She even let some guy cook her dinner! I need help guys... Actually, girls... Thank you
Dump her...odds are she has already cheated on you with one of her "good friends"
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Old 03-20-2012, 03:41 PM
 
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I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months now, and she just keeps talking about other guys. It's only been recently. She is letting them talk dirty to her, and treat her like she is their girlfriend. She gets mad at me for getting mad. She says "they are good friends". HELP??? please.. I love her, but I done now. This is just too much. I need to know why she is doing this.. She even let some guy cook her dinner! I need help guys... Actually, girls... Thank you

She doesn't want you and wants to move on so dump her already and find someone who does want you.
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