No happy ending for her... (advice, sexy, straight, looking)

[ChiGuy2.5]

Originally Posted by darrensmooth

I hope this isnt too graphic for the boards, but maybe start off with manual stimulation, then let her move your hands, try to learn the rhythm so to speak and the spots...(im laughing as I write this)

You kiding or did you really think I meant "open up". I meant emotionally and verbally open up. Now I am laughing. hahaha

[darrensmooth]

Originally Posted by ChiGuy2.5

You kiding or did you really think I meant "open up". I meant emotionally and verbally open up. Now I am laughing. hahaha

I meant both...lol

[redvelvet709]

Originally Posted by ChiGuy2.5

Im 23, shes 24. You could call it youth or inexperience I am sure. Though, I know I am not her first, and I know she has some experience. She is pretty good in bed for me. I just feel bad that I cant return the favor.

I am seeing this as her issue, not yours. Effort is everything!! You are trying and making a grand effort to make her happy. She has to ALLOW it, or you are "beating a dead horse." ha!

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by redvelvet709

I am seeing this as her issue, not yours. Effort is everything!! You are trying and making a grand effort to make her happy. She has to ALLOW it, or you are "beating a dead horse." ha!

Definitely. I'd say take it slow, encourage her to explore, but don't pressure her or make her happy ending into some sort of proof of manhood on your end, because that will make it seem like a chore for her.

[Redrover]

Although I am much older than probably anyone responding to this post, I must say that as a woman I would certainly appreciate that my partner cared enough about my 'results' to look for some guidance on the matter. Kudos to you ChiGuy for thinking about her.

[moonsavvy]

Pass on the Pimpy pounding style. She's probably faking it to get him to stop.



From a lady who can always achieve her goals, I say this gal needs to be on top. Especially since you know she can climax on her own, she is probably climaxing through clitoris stimulation. If she is on top with her legs down, it will work. She seems shy so you need to get her to relax, there are a few places you can kiss that will add as well. Study up on tantra, then you can do homework together.

Practice makes perfect.

[redvelvet709]

Originally Posted by moonsavvy

Pass on the Pimpy pounding style. She's probably faking it to get him to stop.



From a lady who can always achieve her goals, I say this gal needs to be on top. Especially since you know she can climax on her own, she is probably climaxing through clitoris stimulation. If she is on top with her legs down, it will work. She seems shy so you need to get her to relax, there are a few places you can kiss that will add as well. Study up on tantra, then you can do homework together.

Practice makes perfect.

I have always wished being on top worked for me...I prefer to be dominated, I suppose.

[Cantabridgienne]

Just have her show you. What works for someone else might not work for her.

[moonsavvy]

Originally Posted by redvelvet709

I have always wished being on top worked for me...I prefer to be dominated, I suppose.

Well, as long as you know how to get what you want, then why worry about how you get it?

[ChiGuy2.5]

Originally Posted by Redrover

Although I am much older than probably anyone responding to this post, I must say that as a woman I would certainly appreciate that my partner cared enough about my 'results' to look for some guidance on the matter. Kudos to you ChiGuy for thinking about her.

Shes the first one I have never been able to please like that. Although she still enjoys sex, she said its never happened. Almost like she has just given up on it herself... which surprises me.

Originally Posted by moonsavvy

Pass on the Pimpy pounding style. She's probably faking it to get him to stop.

DEFINITELY


From a lady who can always achieve her goals, I say this gal needs to be on top. Especially since you know she can climax on her own, she is probably climaxing through clitoris stimulation. If she is on top with her legs down, it will work. She seems shy so you need to get her to relax, there are a few places you can kiss that will add as well. Study up on tantra, then you can do homework together.

Practice makes perfect.

Shes been on top, she was really good at it! Maybe thats a clue that she enjoys it? Thanks for the tip Moon!