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As far as the vibrator goes my wife owns one and I don't take it personally. Now the adult films is another story. I once had a collection of adult films, which I would watch with my wife to spice up things in the bedroom. Then one episode of Oprah, and she has an ah-ha moment and changes her mind on me having the films in the house. So I respect her wishes and get rid of the movies. Months later while putting the laundry away I find a stash of five (5) porn movies in one of my wife's dresser drawers. The movies were not from my previous collection, and I was so pi**ed that I knew talking to her about it was only going to cause a major argument. To get past it I had to deal with it in therapy. To say it doesn't bother me from time to time would be a lie, but thats why I'm in therapy. I still continue to honor my wife's wish, because its a promise I made to her. To this day she has no idea I know. My opinion on this subject is as follows: If your wife or girlfriend is ok with it great. Once she takes the moral high ground you have to respect her wishes. Most (men) I know don't get bent out of shape over their women looking at men either in movies, or magazines even in adult films most men understand the need for visual stimulation. As long as it doesn't effect the intimacy between the couple the men (at least the ones I know) don't mind. SOME (I would have to include my wife) women like to have their moral cake and eat it too. How the men in their lives deal with it is not an exact science, but it is up to them to either deal, or move on.
If a guy's wife is looking at nude male pics, he should be incredibly concerned. That's likely just the first step she takes before actually seeking out the type of guys she drools over in the pics.
Stats and studies show something different when it comes to porn and women. Where did you get that nude male porn is geared only towards gay men? Going to a male strip club requires women to be seen entering these places and we know how difficult it is for women to be open and honest about things of sexual nature. Of course you can’t expect women to flock these places without caring who will see them. But how about porn where they can nicely enjoy it at the privacy of their own place?
Believe me, sexuality is not just a guy thing.
If women have no problem taking their clothes off and giving me lapdances, and servicing them for money at the hundreds of strip clubs across this country then why would women be so coy about reversing the roles & watching men take their clothes off so they can dance for them? Nowadays, you see more and more regular women being much more open with their sexuality, it's evident by facebook where they wear sexy attire in their profile pics. I just don't think that many women are interested in seeing men getting naked and dancing for them---I know I don't want to see it.
Once again, because men or more open about it. Women don't go to strip clubs because its a public place. That doesn't mean that in the privacy of their own homes they aren't watching porn (which doesn't really need to be geared towards men or women as it takes 2 to tango) and masturbating.
Women don't go because they simply aren't that interested in seeing nude men dance for them. I find that its women who would rather do the dancing and have the men watch.
I've had some sort of vibrator for the past 20 years. Do people honestly think it's that big a deal? Do men really think women aren't sexual beings?
I'm beginning to think that the spate of doltish posts of late is the product of spring break. If I am correct, it will taper off when the students go back to school, and in late April we might even enjoy a couple of weeks free of such silliness as they all log off in favor of cramming for exams.
Alas, I am sure that the questions will resume after graduation, when they are thrust out into the cold, cruel world where women love a good, hard roll in the hay and no longer have to worry about zlut-shaming by the brothers of Zeta Theta Masturbator.
How would you feel if you knew your wife checked out male nude pictures, visited porn sites, etc. that showed guys that were in better shape than you? How would you feel if you found a vibrator hidden in a drawer? It is well-known that women, just like men, masturbate regardless of them having a hard time admitting it but how do guys feel about it?
I ask this because there are guys who say looking at porn shouldn't be a big deal for their wife. How about if it was the other way around? Would you be as accepting?
I would ask her if we need to upgrade our internet speed so that her videos will be more smooth and not jerky (sorry about the pun), or if she needs a bigger monitor or maybe a 3d screen
I'd tell her to pick up some more toys at the everything to do about sex show that travels around the country.
To be honest, I couldn't care less what she does as long as we are keeping each other happy and interested. If she can increase her smile or lube count, good for her
I think most guys I know would do the math on that one pretty quickly, and find a way to get involved. It's not a problem--it's an opportunity.
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