So last night I realized I have no idea when a girl is flirting (boyfriend, married)
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Last night I was at a bar with my buddies to watch some college basketball. I leave the bar around midinght, and start walking back to my place.
As I'm walking down the street, a guy and a girl are walking towards me. They are a little tipsy. They ask me if I know where a certain bar is.
She says, "sir, where is bar x??"
"Don't call me sir! I'm only 23" - me
"Oh, well it was the beard, I thought you were older!"
At this point she starts stroking my beard and calling me lover boy, no longer caring about where the bar is. I HATE when people touch my beard, but I figure I'd try to make the best of the situation.
"I hate when people touch my beard, so if you can do that, I can do this" and I place my hand on her breast.
"Okay, that's fine" she said.
Gave her a hug and left. Didn't try to escalate. Didn't get her number, didn't even ask for her name.
Got home and realized she may have been flirting with me, and i blew it.
Would have, could have, should have. It's too late now. Plus, she was tipsy. The tipsy girl you met last night might be a totally different girl than the one who woke up with a hangover this morning.
I don't think it really counts when they're tipsy lol But, I'm the same way. I basically need it to be told to me. I work for a bank and used to work in a branch. The armored car guy and I would talk every week about EVERYTHING. My co-worker said he liked me but I said no, we just like to talk about sports. She picked up on a lot of things which I told her she was crazy. I remember when I was getting married, I told him I would see him in a few weeks and he got all red, his expression completely changed and said very coldly, "good luck". He took himself off the route. One of the older guys on the route told me why this guy didn't come back. I was dumbstruck. Of course I got the "I told you so" from my co-worker. I'm just oblivious to it sometimes. Last night a bus driver on certain line stopped where I was waiting and smiled at me. I had seen him before and noticed when he stopped, he kept looking at me and smiling. I was like, whatever. Last night he kept smiling and waved but I laughed. I don't know if he was flirting or maybe he thought I was someone else.
I don't think it really counts when they're tipsy lol But, I'm the same way. I basically need it to be told to me. I work for a bank and used to work in a branch. The armored car guy and I would talk every week about EVERYTHING. My co-worker said he liked me but I said no, we just like to talk about sports. She picked up on a lot of things which I told her she was crazy. I remember when I was getting married, I told him I would see him in a few weeks and he got all red, his expression completely changed and said very coldly, "good luck". He took himself off the route. One of the older guys on the route told me why this guy didn't come back. I was dumbstruck. Of course I got the "I told you so" from my co-worker. I'm just oblivious to it sometimes. Last night a bus driver on certain line stopped where I was waiting and smiled at me. I had seen him before and noticed when he stopped, he kept looking at me and smiling. I was like, whatever. Last night he kept smiling and waved but I laughed. I don't know if he was flirting or maybe he thought I was someone else.
You sound like a pretty awesome person. It's so nice to hear then the people I say hi to and put their head down and walk faster or avoid even making contact for whatever reason. How in the world will you ever make friends or have fun while you work if you keep your head up your *beep*
Back to the OP you have issues. First, the gal was with another guy. Apparently it wasn't her boyfriend. Then she was all wasted and you cop a feel on her breasts right there on the street. Nice job!
Anyways, she wasn't flirting with you, she was drunk. She probably thought you were a homeless guy with the beard and all.
You sound like a pretty awesome person. It's so nice to hear then the people I say hi to and put their head down and walk faster or avoid even making contact for whatever reason. How in the world will you ever make friends or have fun while you work if you keep your head up your *beep*
Back to the OP you have issues. First, the gal was with another guy. Apparently it wasn't her boyfriend. Then she was all wasted and you cop a feel on her breasts right there on the street. Nice job!
Anyways, she wasn't flirting with you, she was drunk. She probably thought you were a homeless guy with the beard and all.
No, we talked about graduation, school etc. She knows I go this school.
You sound like a pretty awesome person. It's so nice to hear then the people I say hi to and put their head down and walk faster or avoid even making contact for whatever reason. How in the world will you ever make friends or have fun while you work if you keep your head up your *beep*
Back to the OP you have issues. First, the gal was with another guy. Apparently it wasn't her boyfriend. Then she was all wasted and you cop a feel on her breasts right there on the street. Nice job!
Anyways, she wasn't flirting with you, she was drunk. She probably thought you were a homeless guy with the beard and all.
Aww, shucks..thanks funymann . But you're right. Some people are way too uptight. Nothing wrong with being friendly. I was actually flattered when I realized how the armored car guy felt. He was a few years too late otherwise....
Back to the OP...
Wait, so this girl knows you? I didn't sense that from the OP. It sounded like a random person on the street but now you said she knows you go to that school. The other guy could have been a bf and may be very open to having his gf groped in public by strange bearded men
Hawk50...can't figure what it is you feel you blew???She was drunk...already with a guy....and ok with you copping a feel right in front of him...is that something you really feel you want...or missed out on??....that's not flirting....that's disrespect..
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It's so nice to hear then the people I say hi to and put their head down and walk faster or avoid even making contact for whatever reason. How in the world will you ever make friends or have fun while you work if you keep your head up your *beep*
. But you're right. Some people are way too uptight. Nothing wrong with being friendly. I was actually flattered when I realized how the armored car guy felt. He was a few years too late otherwise...
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