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I'm not talking about sex only relationships,more marriage minded relationships.
I realize ugly men can get money and won't have to worry as much as an unattractive woman.
Do very unattractive women stay single,or almost always the other woman?
They develop other qualities that have nothing to do with how they look.
They develop their minds, their bodies, personalities, their cooking skills.
They develop other qualities that have nothing to do with how they look.
They develop their minds, their bodies, personalities, their cooking skills.
True,but no one knows if your are a good cook and have a great personality if you are walking down the street and the men don't like your look.
I do realize its also harder for me to find men because I am a nurse,and 90% of nurses are women. I don't come into that much contact with men on the job(single men anyway)
if the woman very ugly she may as well just forget it, she may as well be invisible to opposite sex. the only options she would have would be a. be willing to be used for sex or a good time but not taken outside of the bedroom or b. date very unattractive, lame men that no other women seem to want anything to do with.
I go for the unattractive men,but men have this high self esteem where they think they look 10x better than they really do. So they think they are a 10 and won't look at the 2 or 3.
I refuse to dat a man who is a freeloader,that is the only kind I abhor.
They develop other qualities that have nothing to do with how they look.
They develop their minds, their bodies, personalities, their cooking skills.
There are many women who do this, regardless of their physical appearance. I tend to pity the ones who are both super intelligence and attractive - how hard it must be to find a guy who doesnt just want to make you a trophy (let alone a guy who can genuinely appreciate their minds).
I go for the unattractive men,but men have this high self esteem where they think they look 10x better than they really do. So they think they are a 10 and won't look at the 2 or 3.
I refuse to dat a man who is a freeloader,that is the only kind I abhor.
I agree with you 100% I notice they grossly exaggerate their own attractiveness, it is likely an ego thing. Also it's true, in reality the ones that are not that hot in the first place, think they should be getting Heidi Klum, LOL. Sigh. I don't know what else to tell you, it is a shame but it's a looks based society unfortunately. TBH, you are probably not even ugly. I notice women grossly underestimate their own looks, ironically opposite of men.
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if the woman very ugly she may as well just forget it, she may as well be invisible to opposite sex. the only options she would have would be a. be willing to be used for sex or a good time but not taken outside of the bedroom or b. date very unattractive, lame men that no other women seem to want anything to do with.
According to this forum, she should join the short, fat, ugly men...oh and all those who don't have money. So I've been told.
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I agree with you 100% I notice they grossly exaggerate their own attractiveness, it is likely an ego thing. Also it's true, in reality the ones that are not that hot in the first place, think they should be getting Heidi Klum, LOL. Sigh. I don't know what else to tell you, it is a shame but it's a looks based society unfortunately. TBH, you are probably not even ugly. I notice women grossly underestimate their own looks, ironically opposite of men.
Eh, as long as it's not outta control what's the probably with people wanting to feel beautiful? We prop up ugly women all the time by calling them beautiful etc all the time.
I agree it can get outta control. No one should feel they deserve this or that, then again I don't believe in 'leagues.' A Heidi Klum type could easily fall for Mr Average Joe.
For sure I'd rather be with a man who is unattractive on the outside and beautiful inside. I lucked out and found a man who is beautiful inside and outside.
What a coincidence! All who claim the former somehow, I'm sure by pure chance, by some one-in-a-million-years alignment of all planets, ended up with the latter!
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