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That sounds to me like he thinks you are soooo unnattractive that not only do guys not go out with you, they don't even talk to you.
I don't know, that sounds pretty cold....
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Originally Posted by nyanna
I had met this guy and he started asking me questions like
"do a lot of guys even talk to you?" "what type of men usually approach you?"
Why was he asking me this? Was he trying to figure out if most guys found me unattractive? It was like he was assessng my worth and he wasn't sure what that was
I just have 3 questions.
Where did you meet him? What is the nature of your acquaintance? And what was the topic of conversation right before he asked these questions?
Where did you meet him? What is the nature of your acquaintance? And what was the topic of conversation right before he asked these questions?
Good sleuthing. We are only hearing one side of the story. Maybe he just got done listening to her ramble on about her cats, and then watched her slurp down a booger.
He asked me if I had a lot of guys approaching me or talking to me. Was he trying to figure out other guys thought I was ugly or hot?? I just thought that was strange
Insecure... jealous... controlling... stupid... awkward... Whichever it is (or a combo), you don't want it!
Where did you meet him? What is the nature of your acquaintance? And what was the topic of conversation right before he asked these questions?
I met him at the post office. He invited me over to his place and that is when he asked me the series of questions. Later on he did try to make things sexual but I refused. I didn't find him that attractive
I met him at the post office. He invited me over to his place and that is when he asked me the series of questions. Later on he did try to make things sexual but I refused. I didn't find him that attractive
You just went with him from the post office to his house?
Not that day. but after a few conversations I agreed to meet him at his place.
WHAT?!?!? You didn't even go on a date for coffee or something simple??? What were you thinking? If you didn't find him attractive then why did you continue conversations and go to his apartment?
WHAT?!?!? You didn't even go on a date for coffee or something simple??? What were you thinking? If you didn't find him attractive then why did you continue conversations and go to his apartment?
he seemed like a cool guy and I was lonely and wanted somebody to hang with. i thought maybe his looks would grow on me. i dont have fair skin or light eyes so i am in no position to be choosy
Not that day. but after a few conversations I agreed to meet him at his place.
Well, if I were in your shoes, and hadn't been attracted to him, I probably wouldn't have gone to his place. That's basically an invite for sex....
If you're not attracted to someone, it will kind of show in the your mannerisms and whatnot....He probably wasn't getting a good read on you and ended up asking you some stupid questions...
Point is, don't let him get you down about yourself! If he's not attractive, it doesn't matter what he thinks anyway.
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I don't know what to do or think. I can always improve myself with plastic surgery
You didn't even go on a date for coffee or something simple??? What were you thinking? If you didn't find him attractive then why did you continue conversations and go to his apartment?
