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Old 03-30-2012, 11:13 AM
 
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Dang, can't a girl PMS without getting dumped?! lol
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Old 03-30-2012, 11:19 AM
 
Location: DFW
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This has got to be a bogus thread. If not, you are a wimp.
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Old 03-30-2012, 11:20 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Dang, can't a girl PMS without getting dumped?! lol
LOL
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Old 03-30-2012, 12:45 PM
 
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Dang, can't a girl PMS without getting dumped?! lol
Forget PMS...I used to suffer from PMDD...holy cow was a biotch! Do you remember those commercials with the woman and the shopping cart? That was MILD compared to what I used to go through.

I'm not sure why my husband put up with me!
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Old 03-30-2012, 12:58 PM
 
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Don't chase 'em, replace 'em. Give that b**** a Chinese name: One Gone!
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Old 03-31-2012, 12:46 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I keep asking myself the same question everyday.. I just love her.
Oh brother
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Old 03-31-2012, 07:33 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Default Stop bothering her; it's over

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hi, i had some problems with my girlfriend because lately she was very short in her messages and she seemed etremely uninterested.
So yesterday i was trying to be sweet because she has her period and i know she can be extremely cranky so at first she was just a little bit short and unresponsive and suddenly she acted like a total B**** (Which is nothing new). So i went to bed and decided not to text her in the morning, and see if she would text me since i always have to initiate conversation. Now it's 7 in the evening and she still hasn't text me.. I can't text her neither because then she knows i keep coming back, and she needs to know that if she doesn't change i will get the f*** out! I tried talking to her, but she doesn't seem to take it to the heart!!

I love her, but i'm not prepared to give my all in a one-sided relationship.
She's no longer interested in you. Face reality. Rather than being in denial, obsessing over the time when she last sent you a text and over-analyzing whether you should send one after thinking about it all day, do yourself a favor and begin the process of being dumped.

Of course, in all likelihood, there is someone else she's more interested in. But it's clear that you're no longer it. You have a brutal task now: coping with your own insecurity and hurt feelings from being rejected and struggling with the reality that you have just been dumped.

Since this is the reality, call her and ask to meet her in person. Tell her how disapproving you have been over her behavior and lack of consideration, then tell her that you're moving on. Don't text her. She's not interested.
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Old 03-31-2012, 09:29 PM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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That's the problem, whenever she's with me she's cool and all but when she's not with me she's a b****.. I'm just confused!
I have seen this before, she is seeing someone else.
Many women will not break up till they are involved with the next sap.
They like to make sure where their next free meal is coming from.

Act uninterested and she will come flying back, but it will not last.
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Old 04-02-2012, 09:35 AM
 
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That's the problem, whenever she's with me she's cool and all but when she's not with me she's a b****.. I'm just confused!
How do you know if when she's "not" with you she's a b####??...I just can't believe how times have changed and how it's become all about "the power of the text"...sad..
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Old 04-02-2012, 09:41 AM
 
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hi, i had some problems with my girlfriend because lately she was very short in her messages and she seemed etremely uninterested.
So yesterday i was trying to be sweet because she has her period and i know she can be extremely cranky so at first she was just a little bit short and unresponsive and suddenly she acted like a total B**** (Which is nothing new). So i went to bed and decided not to text her in the morning, and see if she would text me since i always have to initiate conversation. Now it's 7 in the evening and she still hasn't text me.. I can't text her neither because then she knows i keep coming back, and she needs to know that if she doesn't change i will get the f*** out! I tried talking to her, but she doesn't seem to take it to the heart!!

I love her, but i'm not prepared to give my all in a one-sided relationship.
Respect yourself above all. Otherwise, this is only the beginning.

The first time she did this to you, it was her fault. People who rationalize taking things out on other people because they don't feel well, are stressed, or any number of other reasons aren't people you want to be around in the first place. But the second time she does it, it's your fault, because you've essentially told her that you'll tolerate such behavior.

So, when she calls you and asks where you've been, simply say, "I'm sorry. I didn't like the way you treated me. I really don't care if it's that time of the month or not. I deserve better treatment and if you don't agree, then we'll just call a halt to this right now."

Then live up to it.
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