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Old 04-02-2012, 08:39 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Ron. View Post
I decided to create this thread as a play on the thread about knowing people that don't date.

My question; Why can't YOU get a date?


I'm asking YOU to answer for yourself.


Why can't YOU get a date/girlfriend/laid/FWB?




FWB= Friends with bennefits( if you don't know what it means, please don't ask me to explain)
You left out FB and ONS.

 
Old 04-02-2012, 08:40 PM
 
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Asperger Syndrome, don't have many friends, so i'm not that outgoing, it's hard to be outgoing and meet new people when you don't have many close friends obviously
AS folks can hang out with AS folks.
 
Old 04-02-2012, 08:41 PM
 
Location: Cincinnati, Ohio
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Why can't YOU get a date/girlfriend/laid/FWB?

Because I don't put myself out there, lack of outgoing (or social) activities. I am very introverted, also fairly shy. The last time I made a cold approach was twelve years ago.

I'm also a "nice guy" and move slow, so since I'm not trying to steal a kiss or cop a feel after the third date (the rare times I have one), I end up friend-zoned.
 
Old 04-02-2012, 08:42 PM
 
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No you're not!
Sure I am.

I've got a pretty good personality, though looks wise I'm pretty fugly. lol.
 
Old 04-02-2012, 08:51 PM
 
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I'm short, I don't want kids, and I didn't vote for Obama...seems to eliminate 99.9% of single women in their late 20s/early 30s.

Edit: Also, I work with pretty much all married people at least 10-15 years older than me, my hobbies involve mostly older men, and I am not interested in a relationship with a woman who does not have her finances in decent order. I guess now I've eliminated 99.999999% of single women in my age group.

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Old 04-02-2012, 08:58 PM
 
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I'm short, I don't want kids, and I didn't vote for Obama...seems to eliminate 99.9% of single women in their late 20s/early 30s.
What is your height?
 
Old 04-02-2012, 09:04 PM
 
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What is your height?
5'6". Thin, runner-type build isn't helping either.
 
Old 04-02-2012, 09:06 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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Dunno, part of it is that I don't try hard enough. I'm usually too afraid to make a real move so I end up in the friend zone. But I'm more than fine with laying the blame on something else as well, namely the environments I find myself in. I don't go out to a lot of parties, we usually just have people at our house. The guys here all mostly know guys and only a handful of girls, all far out of my league. The girls here also mostly know guys and the few girls they know are usually taken.

Hell I went to a party on Friday and the majority of girls were there with their boyfriends or were interested in other guys

A few weeks ago we had a party and I tried making a move on this one girl who I thought was into me but she denied me hahaha, ah well at least I tried.

Perhaps part of it is also that I'm not interesting enough. I'm pretty fun to hang out with I think but I just don't do much with my spare time. I need to join some more social clubs honestly, just to have stuff to do on the weekends besides drinking.
 
Old 04-02-2012, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Holland, MI
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Lack of confidence
Short
Not super fit... although I have improved substantially.
Not a d-bag
Did I mention no confidence?
 
Old 04-02-2012, 09:29 PM
 
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I can and do. So far in 2012, I've slept with 4 different chicks.
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