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Asperger Syndrome, don't have many friends, so i'm not that outgoing, it's hard to be outgoing and meet new people when you don't have many close friends obviously
Because I don't put myself out there, lack of outgoing (or social) activities. I am very introverted, also fairly shy. The last time I made a cold approach was twelve years ago.
I'm also a "nice guy" and move slow, so since I'm not trying to steal a kiss or cop a feel after the third date (the rare times I have one), I end up friend-zoned.
I'm short, I don't want kids, and I didn't vote for Obama...seems to eliminate 99.9% of single women in their late 20s/early 30s.
Edit: Also, I work with pretty much all married people at least 10-15 years older than me, my hobbies involve mostly older men, and I am not interested in a relationship with a woman who does not have her finances in decent order. I guess now I've eliminated 99.999999% of single women in my age group.
Dunno, part of it is that I don't try hard enough. I'm usually too afraid to make a real move so I end up in the friend zone. But I'm more than fine with laying the blame on something else as well, namely the environments I find myself in. I don't go out to a lot of parties, we usually just have people at our house. The guys here all mostly know guys and only a handful of girls, all far out of my league. The girls here also mostly know guys and the few girls they know are usually taken.
Hell I went to a party on Friday and the majority of girls were there with their boyfriends or were interested in other guys
A few weeks ago we had a party and I tried making a move on this one girl who I thought was into me but she denied me hahaha, ah well at least I tried.
Perhaps part of it is also that I'm not interesting enough. I'm pretty fun to hang out with I think but I just don't do much with my spare time. I need to join some more social clubs honestly, just to have stuff to do on the weekends besides drinking.
I can and do. So far in 2012, I've slept with 4 different chicks.
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