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Old 07-04-2013, 08:06 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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This is a non-starter..Firstly gay men almost never compliment straight men. Also- respectful gay men behave themselves around straight men. Gay men who come on to straight males with "compliments" are usually weasels. Respect is paramount...if the people who are interacting have class.
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Old 07-04-2013, 08:43 PM
 
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I don't take compliments from gay men because I'm not flattered at all nor should I be. I'm not flattered when a girl I deem to be unattractive compliments me. I don't care because it does nothing for me. I won't bite his head off but I will ignore him and remove myself from being near him if that is a possibility.
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Old 07-04-2013, 09:10 PM
 
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If you are flattered that means you are bi-curious. Nothing other way to explain it
Or he's just secure in his heterosexuality.
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Old 07-04-2013, 09:29 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Or he's just secure in his heterosexuality.

you can believe that if you want to
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Old 07-05-2013, 05:53 AM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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From what I understand - the white rhino or prize for some gays is to get intimate with a straight man...They consider that the highest form of gay seduction...Some assume that gays go after gays only. Personally I find the whole idea predatory. Of course I will get called a phobe because I find a gay advance intrusive. There is no other reason for a "compliment" other than there being ulterior motives. I suspect this thread has been invented to satisfy some sort of fantasy - on the part of gay men who HOPE to interact with straight men in an intimate fashion...You have to look at the sub text of the thread. More propaganda.
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Old 07-05-2013, 09:43 AM
FBJ
 
Location: Tall Building down by the river
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From what I understand - the white rhino or prize for some gays is to get intimate with a straight man...They consider that the highest form of gay seduction...Some assume that gays go after gays only. Personally I find the whole idea predatory. Of course I will get called a phobe because I find a gay advance intrusive. There is no other reason for a "compliment" other than there being ulterior motives. I suspect this thread has been invented to satisfy some sort of fantasy - on the part of gay men who HOPE to interact with straight men in an intimate fashion...You have to look at the sub text of the thread. More propaganda.

Yeah it's more exciting for them to recruit someone that is straight then someone who is already gay. Just like when I recruit for fetish activities it's more of a turn on to have a girl come over who has never heard of the lifestyle versus someone who is a domintrax
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Old 07-05-2013, 10:32 AM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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Or he's just secure in his heterosexuality.
EXACTLY. And I'll add - not homophobic.
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Old 07-05-2013, 10:35 AM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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Or he's just secure in his heterosexuality.
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Old 07-05-2013, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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If you are flattered that means you are bi-curious. Nothing other way to explain it

I think Bi men are pretty hot!! Could make things more interesting lol
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Old 07-05-2013, 10:37 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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I think Bi men are pretty hot!! Could make things more interesting lol


That's weird
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