Where are the Asian men and Black women couples? (boyfriend, how to, cheating)

[NewSpring]

Well, I'm an asian man and I like black women but you know they're hard to get. Culturally I'm more compatible with my asian counterpart because when I make a joke they laugh. Other than that I like women all races.

[miu]

Originally Posted by Liberty464

Why aren't there more Asian men dating black women? There are a lot of beautiful, educated, ambitious black women around, why aren't they approached by Asian men?

Why are you asking this question? Years ago, I had a Chinese male friend that dated a black woman and had two children out of wedlock with her. Later on, he married a Chinese woman from the mainland, had a child with her, then divorced her because all she wanted to do was go out and gamble with her Chinese friends. She also refused to learn English.

When I worked at a hotel, there was a night where there were two different dance parties going on and in different parts of the main ballroom. One group was Chinese and the other blacks. They didn't actually mingle, but in the hallways, all the men were checking out the women from the other party as the girls walked to the bathrooms.

BTW I'm a Chinese woman who has only dated white men, it runs in the family.

[BarryU404]

Originally Posted by Liberty464

Why aren't there more Asian men dating black women? There are a lot of beautiful, educated, ambitious black women around, why aren't they approached by Asian men?

They're in the caribbean. My sister is married to an Asian man; she's jamaican. It's quite common there.

[Jadel812]

Originally Posted by BarryU404

They're in the caribbean. My sister is married to an Asian man; she's jamaican. It's quite common there.

That is true, you will find quite a few Asian men with caribbean women.. I have seen the most popular figure being in Jamaica.

The hardest thing I had to get used to was to actually here a white or Asian person speak Jamaican, it just didn't seem right...but it so amazing how diverse most of the Islands are.

[Nthng2Prv]

There's alot of Asian male/Black female couples in the Caribbean and I do mean alot but it's rare to see it here in the US unless of course, again they are of Caribbean descent. That is to a large extent because historically Asian and East Indian men were brought to the Caribbean as indentured servants and could not bring women along (like a wife, etc) so when they come to these other countries like Jamaica or Cuba where there's nothing but women of African descent that is who they end up with.

[stalwart]

I'm an Asian man who fantasized about dating a beautiful black woman. The irony is that black woman sterotype the Asian man as being too small in the package to even consider a serious relationship. On a professional level, Asian man are in high demands.

I don't get it. I love to date a black woman. light or dark skin.. doesn't matter.

[myselfdotcom]

rofl...why there is so much stereotypical asian men only want asian women....ya maybe back in the days....

[myselfdotcom]

Originally Posted by Jadel812

That is true, you will find quite a few Asian men with caribbean women.. I have seen the most popular figure being in Jamaica.

The hardest thing I had to get used to was to actually here a white or Asian person speak Jamaican, it just didn't seem right...but it so amazing how diverse most of the Islands are.

i think most Jamaican speak English since English is their official language

[lilbrave_warrior]

i myself am a black woman, and i believe asian men are hard to get. i feel like one look at my skin color and they've already set the boundary to just friends. i have many asian guy friends, i'm ready to cross that line, but it seems i intimidate them somehow with sterotypes. when it comes to love and friendship i erase sterotypes and get to know that person for them. i think if the world thought more like this, black women to you wouldnt be so hard to get and asian men for me would seem interested.

[lilbrave_warrior]

That sterotype is exactly what i'm talking about. Small Package? I could careless, if you really love someone for them, women should be able to oversee the minor details. AM/BW relationships were so unheard of and unseen that i considered it a fetish and my ultimate fantasy. Now i know it's possible to have an Asian bf, husband, whatever...the only thing now is actually meeting someone who doesnt want to be just friends. My friends tell me give it some time, so i'll tell you the same. do not worry, there are many black women out there who love asian men, many of them usually hide it though.