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I've been seeing this guy for more than 2 mos. still early stage.
we already are sexually active.. and we also get along great inside outside bedroom lol
he is a shy guy, doesn't express his feeling that well..
he hasn't said 'I love you' yet, but lately he's been saying 'love' words alot, I think he's trying to say it tho.. he would randomly text and say 'love' to me, also he tries to make me saying 'I love you' .. I can't explain but I can see that lol
anyways, recently he started to ask me if I want to be pregnant, say he knows I want to be prego, he's going to get me pregnant later,,in teasing way (it's not that bc he wants unprotected sex. we are having protected sex and he never complains)
then today, he asks his lil dog like 'do you love me''do you want to get married to me' and made her nod lol then turned to me saying 'she wants to get married!ooo do you??' I thought he's just teasing, so I just laughed.
but now I'm thinking is he taking me that serious level already?
because im thinking, if he didn't care of the word 'marry', he wouldn't have brought that kinda sentence at all...so.. and the facts he's been mentioning 'love' word and telling me that he's going to get me pregnant,, he just brings 'pregnant' word alot.
I started to develop feelings more than just like him, and I care about him and I know he does too. but I never thought he would think about marriage.. with me..haha (my main concern is I'm not a native speaker and I do have language barrier.. he even points that out sometimes, so I thought he wouldn't consider me in that serious level)
well I'm in early 20, but he's in early 30's where he possibly could think about settling down.
we acting like an old couple, we just are so comfortable eachother already, he trusts me much where he shared all his dark past with me,,, and we're pretty much involved into eachother's personal and business life too.
so are these the signs he is taking me seriously?
I've been seeing this guy for more than 2 mos. still early stage...recently he started to ask me if I want to be pregnant, say he knows I want to be prego, he's going to get me pregnant later,,in teasing way ...he asks his lil dog like 'do you love me''do you want to get married to me' and made her nod lol then turned to me saying 'she wants to get married!ooo do you??'
so are these the signs he is taking me seriously?
This is scary. And honestly, I don't think these are signs he's taking you seriously. Either because of the language barrier or deeper reasons.
Is it just me or does he seem totally fixated on getting you settled down and knocked up? This is 2-3 months into the relationship?
In my opinion, a sign of a man taking you seriously is if he sits down and has a 2-way conversation with you about whether you're interested in children, what age you see yourself getting married, etc.
Having his dog ask you and joking about being impregnated comes off as really creepy and immature. If these are important issues to him, he should be communicating them in a serious manner. Something's off with what you've given us here, IMO...
Why is it more serious to you that her asked you to marry him via his dog rather than it being more serious that he wants to "get you knocked up?" Wow it seriously blows my mind that people don't realize a child ties you two together forever (birthday parties, school functions, graduation, college, marriage, grandchildren). Jump on some birth control ASAP people should be married and live together for a few years before bringing children into the mix. Spend time together because once you have children it's no longer just about you kids should be number one and your needs and wants a close 2nd. Just my $.02 good luck
What's "early stage" about any of this, OP? You seem to have crashed through quite a few stages in just 2 months. You said yourself, you two act "like an old couple".
The whole thing is very strange. As in: not normal. See above comments.
I've been seeing this guy for more than 2 mos. still early stage.
we already are sexually active.. and we also get along great inside outside bedroom lol
he is a shy guy, doesn't express his feeling that well..
he hasn't said 'I love you' yet, but lately he's been saying 'love' words alot, I think he's trying to say it tho.. he would randomly text and say 'love' to me, also he tries to make me saying 'I love you' .. I can't explain but I can see that lol
anyways, recently he started to ask me if I want to be pregnant, say he knows I want to be prego, he's going to get me pregnant later,,in teasing way (it's not that bc he wants unprotected sex. we are having protected sex and he never complains)
then today, he asks his lil dog like 'do you love me''do you want to get married to me' and made her nod lol then turned to me saying 'she wants to get married!ooo do you??' I thought he's just teasing, so I just laughed.
but now I'm thinking is he taking me that serious level already?
because im thinking, if he didn't care of the word 'marry', he wouldn't have brought that kinda sentence at all...so.. and the facts he's been mentioning 'love' word and telling me that he's going to get me pregnant,, he just brings 'pregnant' word alot.
I started to develop feelings more than just like him, and I care about him and I know he does too. but I never thought he would think about marriage.. with me..haha (my main concern is I'm not a native speaker and I do have language barrier.. he even points that out sometimes, so I thought he wouldn't consider me in that serious level)
well I'm in early 20, but he's in early 30's where he possibly could think about settling down.
we acting like an old couple, we just are so comfortable eachother already, he trusts me much where he shared all his dark past with me,,, and we're pretty much involved into eachother's personal and business life too.
so are these the signs he is taking me seriously?
Okay, I'm a bit concerned here. This guy sounds like a grade a creep or a borderline sociopath. He is trying to manipulate you. No man would talk about pregnancy and marriage that early in a relationship if he was serious. I think he is seriously trying to manipulate you. Watch his behavior and facial expressions and see what you think.
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I'm not sure if its his funny bone 
