Myth: Good Men Are Hard To Find (husband, sex, problems)

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by The Dissenter

As one of "those young men without a solid father figure" we have good reason to whine sometimes. Some of us have had up lives by no fault of our own in some cases. Of course we have distorted views that may misinterpeted by the likes of you as whining.

You admit you have "good reason to whine", then say I am "misinterpreting" you views as whining?

Whining is a waste of good energy.

Whining is what children do when they lack any other coping skills.

Whining will never solve your problems.

I am sincerely sorry no adult ever took the time to teach you this.

[lovesthebass]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

You admit you have "good reason to whine", then say I am "misinterpreting" you views as whining?

Whining is a waste of good energy.

Whining is what children do when they lack any other coping skills.

Whining will never solve your problems.

I am sincerely sorry no adult ever took the time to teach you this.

To be fair, these forums would be pretty boring if people didn't whine.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by lovesthebass

To be fair, these forums would be pretty boring if people didn't whine.

Good point. I figure most are here for the entertainment value.

[lovesthebass]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

Good point. I figure most are here for the entertainment value.

Meh. The entertainment is okay. I try to offer positive reinforcement as most people creating threads here have issues and could use some positivity.

I guess I'm also here to try to learn a few things as I have plenty issues myself.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

Good point. I figure most are here for the entertainment value.

I only wish that were true.

I suspect many here are really looking for answers (good for them).

But many are very angry hurt people who have nowhere else to rant, rave and make their short-sighted generalizations

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by lovesthebass

Meh. The entertainment is okay. I try to offer positive reinforcement as most people creating threads here have issues and could use some positivity.

I guess I'm also here to try to learn a few things as I have plenty issues myself.

It's pretty shocking that you make the statement in this thread of all threads on this forum. This space is a Jerry Springer joke.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

I only wish that were true.

I suspect many here are really looking for answers (good for them).

But many are very angry hurt people who have nowhere else to rant, rave and make their short-sighted generalizations

I think internet hyperbole plays a huge role here.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

I think internet hyperbole plays a huge role here.

Oh, there is some of that too

[The Dissenter]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

You admit you have "good reason to whine", then say I am "misinterpreting" you views as whining?

Whining is a waste of good energy.

Whining is what children do when they lack any other coping skills.

Whining will never solve your problems.

I am sincerely sorry no adult ever took the time to teach you this.

Can I remind you that I am not your son? Take the mothering advice elsewhere.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by The Dissenter

Can I remind you that I am not your son? Take the mothering advice elsewhere.

The thing is, you would have been lucky to have a mom like me, because I would have never let you become a whiner.

You may not want my advice, but you sure could benefit from it.

Just sayin'...