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If I was in a relationship, and knew my SO had sexual fantasies about people we knew, or someone he worked with, I would not like that. Because that would make me think if he was thinking of crossing the line.
Just being honest..that's just too close for comfort. And isnt that where stuff like that starts..with thoughts? I may be in the minority here, but im going to say I would not like knowing that my man was having tons of sexual fantasies about my friend, or his co worker, etc. I mean..really? That doesnt weird some of you out? Like..when your best friend Sarah comes over for dinner, and later on that night he wacks off in the bathroom thinking about her? Because if its a sexual fantasy, you know some of that is going on. Yeahhhhhhh, best I never ever find out about that. If he was having fantasies about celebrities, who cares. He isnt sitting next to them at work, or seeing them at my house. In all fairness, when Im involved with someone, I never think that way about other men. Its just not something that happens.
And I guess I didnt answer the OP question. No, I dont feel guilty about fantasising about other people because I only do that when im single. When im in a relationship I just dont feel that toward other men. Never have.
But, when im single, all sorts of thoughts go through my head.
If I was in a relationship, and knew my SO had sexual fantasies about peoplewe knew, or someone he worked with, I would not like that. Because that would make me think if he was thinking of crossing the line.
Interesting that you word it that way. By definition, a sexual fantasy = thinking of crossing the line. That's what the fantasy is about, him having sex with someone other than you...
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And I guess I didnt answer the OP question. No, I dont feel guilty about fantasising about other people because I only do that when im single. When im in a relationship I just dont feel that toward other men. Never have.
But, when im single, all sorts of thoughts go through my head.
Well said. I'm the same way, except that I have had fleeting thoughts and dreams of others in a sexual way even while coupled. I don't think we should blame ourselves for fleeting thoughts and dreams, however, just what we do/think intentionally.
You stated you fantasized about male celebs. Are you bisexual or bicurious?
If it came to be in real life you were next to said celeb,would you have sex with him?
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You stated you fantasized about male celebs. Are you bisexual or bicurious?
If it came to be in real life you were next to said celeb,would you have sex with him?
No.
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If he was having fantasies about celebrities, who cares. He isnt sitting next to them at work, or seeing them at my house. In all fairness, when Im involved with someone, I never think that way about other men. Its just not something that happens.
