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Old 04-16-2012, 08:39 PM
 
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Oh...that wasn't a typo...



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ONS is someone you meet the same day/night. FB happens after a few days and continues.
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Old 04-16-2012, 08:41 PM
 
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LMAO! Tell that to some unsuspecting woman or one that doesn't care. LIke I said, majority of women do not want to be considered some guy's 'fu*k buddy' -- but are okay with being called a 'FWB.' Why? Because the term is less harsh & might actually mean he equates you with some sort of worth outside the bedroom. But alas, FB, ONS, FWB -- are all the same. "Free" sex until he can find something better then you.
I know they don't but there are women who are on the rebound that will take a Fb/Fwb.

She is getting free sex also.
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Old 04-16-2012, 08:43 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I know they don't but there are women who are on the rebound that will take a Fb/Fwb.

She is getting free sex also.

That's why I said find those women, ones that don't care what you think about them outside of the bed.
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Old 04-16-2012, 08:45 PM
 
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That's why I said find those women, ones that don't care what you think about them outside of the bed.
There are these kind of women out there though.
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Old 04-16-2012, 08:53 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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There are these kind of women out there though.

There's a guy in another thread talking about his wife is a swinger, talk to him. ....there are women out there who do not care about these 'trivialities,' so it's not true they aren't out there. Obviously the people who are more open to various kinds of sexual arrangements are the ones with the most success in the dating world, those are the women that get pursued.
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Old 04-16-2012, 08:53 PM
 
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If you're good looking, and you meet someone who is also good looking, and you both find each other attractive.....

Profit.

If you're ugly and looking for casual sex and a friends with benefits, you're gonna be stuck with manual stimulation for a while.
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Old 04-16-2012, 08:57 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I've only been in one 'FWB' situation fairly long term, and it was very one sided. We agree we were in a relationship, referred to each other as boyfriend/girlfriend etc. and it turns out he was just saying those things to get regular sex. The minute he found a girl he wanted to 'seriously' date, he told me he thought it was just a FWB situation.

So, even with commitment it can still be a FWB situation. Now, if I were to ever get into another relationship (which I'm honestly not planning on in the near or far future) I will make sure my version of relationship is the same as his.

So, I think the can start in an number of ways. My friend and her now husband started out as a very strict FWB situation, they even had a notebook with 'rules' in it because she didn't want a commitment. 8 years later, they're very happily married. It started because she didn't want to date a coworker, but figured sex was ok.
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Old 04-16-2012, 09:14 PM
 
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There's a guy in another thread talking about his wife is a swinger, talk to him. ....there are women out there who do not care about these 'trivialities,' so it's not true they aren't out there. Obviously the people who are more open to various kinds of sexual arrangements are the ones with the most success in the dating world, those are the women that get pursued.
There are forums and sites for the swinger lifestyle. I know women who have slept with over 250 men in her 20s.
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Old 04-16-2012, 09:18 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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There are forums and sites for the swinger lifestyle. I know women who have slept with over 250 men in her 20s.

And that's wonderful for those women, I suppose.
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Old 04-16-2012, 09:19 PM
 
Location: USA
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From online dating sites. It is pretty easy actually. I have been in a few FB relationships for years. You can setup threesomes, orgies and swapping partners.
Is this true or just something you heard or made up? I was never approached with anything like this. Well, there were some married men, but I never answered their messages.
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