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No, I realize it's not in her best interest for me to take her with me. That's why for close to a year I've been struggling with this & think the best thing might be for me to get away alone. I'm so depressed & practically non-functional, even with medication and weekly counseling. She's in counseling,too, so she has someone impartial to talk to. It breaks my heart to think of leaving her, but I don't think her seeing me like this & living with me like this can be a whole lot better. Her father won't lay a hand on her.This I am sure of. We just hate each other. The abuse was a one time culmination of a fight last December. Thanks for everyone's input & concern.
Abuse is never a one time thing. It continues to happen. How can you be sure he won't hurt your daughter? He's hurt you and probably others.
There is no way I would leave my kid with a person like that. He's dangerous and sick and you both need to be away from him.
Quinn, glad you're getting out more and feeling better. Yoga is great. Good for the body, mind and spirit.
I agree you need to move out. Can you look into a roommate situation? Maybe another single or divorced mother? Maybe then you could have your daughter with you.
Is there a chance that you won't get custody if you split with your husband? I agree Songinthewind that you can't be positive that once you aren't around that her father may decide to take out his frustrations on your daughter. After all, I am sure that you never thought he would hurt you before he did.
There are very likely organizations in your city that can help you, women's and children's groups. Please look into them.
Good luck and much love!
La
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